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  • rolandftw
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    Originally posted by pricejj View Post
    What animals are polyamorous and have sex for pleasure not offspring? Bonobos are all I know of.

    Plus, humans are not like animals anyway, we're different.
    I think the majority of people that have sex, have pleasure in doing so. Certainly, most people want a family as well, but I don't think it is an either or type of thing.

    I would say the majority of younger people want to have sex specifically for pleasure, and do not want offspring (at least until they are financially prepared to provide for them)

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  • ghwk
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    Originally posted by spdirty View Post
    You blast him for judging then you judge him by calling him male Taliban?
    I never said I wasn't judgmental. See the difference there?

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  • pricejj
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    Originally posted by spdirty View Post
    Have you ever been cheated on?
    No. I've been dumped plenty of times, and dumped a couple myself. I had several gf's before finally meeting someone compatible to build with, getting married, and starting a family. I think most people in the US have stories very similar to mine.

    I think the vast majority of people in the world would probably feel grossed out having to share a female mate. That's just not how humans as a species have developed. Civilization has not been built on the backs of babymommas and absentee fathers.

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  • spdirty
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    Originally posted by pricejj View Post
    Of course.

    And I don't really judge women who sleep around, I just wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. Just doesn't sound appealing on any level. Sound gross to me on the the inside. Must be instincts.
    Have you ever been cheated on?

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  • pricejj
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    Originally posted by Quoydogs View Post
    What animals are monogamous ? Humans can be debated . I know geese are and possibly penguins. But the vast majority are not.
    What animals are polyamorous and have sex for pleasure not offspring? Bonobos are all I know of.

    Plus, humans are not like animals anyway, we're different.
    Last edited by pricejj; 04-12-2015, 01:20 PM.

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  • Quoydogs
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    What animals are monogamous ? Humans can be debated . I know geese are and possibly penguins. But the vast majority are not.

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  • ColoradoDarin
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    This thread delivers

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  • CEH
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    Originally posted by Meck77 View Post
    I say to each his own however when it comes to children I see real challenges with this lifestyle.

    I know a dude who lives that lifestyle. He made it sound so perfect when he told me he was "poly". 6 months later I chat with him and the dude has lost his mind. He's wrapped up in a jealous world, love child doesn't know who the heck daddy is, daddy is now dealing with dude #2 banging his #1 gal and it's driving him insane. He thought he had all the cake and was able to eat it too.
    TLC or A& E has a TV show called the lifestyle about a small town in Ohio and they deal with exactly what you have posted.

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  • Meck77
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    I say to each his own however when it comes to children I see real challenges with this lifestyle.

    I know a dude who lives that lifestyle. He made it sound so perfect when he told me he was "poly". 6 months later I chat with him and the dude has lost his mind. He's wrapped up in a jealous world, love child doesn't know who the heck daddy is, daddy is now dealing with dude #2 banging his #1 gal and it's driving him insane. He thought he had all the cake and was able to eat it too.

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  • pricejj
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    Originally posted by ghwk View Post
    I'm not judging anybody but if you are female and you sleep around you are a whore?? How could that possibly be construed as judgmental?

    Price you are male Taliban. Got a whole set of rules for the lessor folk as you see them.

    How about if "they" sleep around they are simply enjoying their God given body? It was and still is a male Christian church that invented the whole concept of chastity and the sacred Virgin just to keep us all in line.
    Sorry, not with the whole anti-male, anti-religion thing that is in fashion right now amongst a certain set. People can really do whatever they want. Definitely tolerant of everybody, and have great friends with people from all over the world, with all lifestyles.

    Going to school and living in Boulder for almost 20 years, I was able to meet tons of great people from all over the world and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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  • pricejj
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    Originally posted by spdirty View Post
    So if you are with a woman who reveals that, even though she is disease free, she's slept with over 100 guys before she met you but would be downright all out loyal to you while with her, you'd be ok with that? If the woman is everything you could ever want in a woman, you could look past her past?
    Of course.

    And I don't really judge women who sleep around, I just wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. Just doesn't sound appealing on any level. Sound gross to me on the the inside. Must be instincts.

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  • Archer81
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    Originally posted by ghwk View Post
    I'm not judging anybody but if you are female and you sleep around you are a whore?? How could that possibly be construed as judgmental?

    Price you are male Taliban. Got a whole set of rules for the lessor folk as you see them.

    How about if "they" sleep around they are simply enjoying their God given body? It was and still is a male Christian church that invented the whole concept of chastity and the sacred Virgin just to keep us all in line.

    Not true. Romans had a sect called the Vestal Virgins...who dedicated their entire lives to remaining chaste. If they broke their vows, they were killed.

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  • spdirty
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    Originally posted by pricejj View Post
    You're wrong about that. I just consider a woman a whore who is in more than one relationship at a time. Living in some kind of whore commune is not appealing to me on any level. Why would I care if I know she doesn't care about me? What are you building? What kind of future would the children have?
    Yeah I understand that.

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  • spdirty
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    Originally posted by pricejj View Post
    During our relationship? 1. Previous to our relationship, who cares. You're not in a relationship with a woman if she's sleeping with other guys. You're just ****ing.
    So if you are with a woman who reveals that, even though she is disease free, she's slept with over 100 guys before she met you but would be downright all out loyal to you while with her, you'd be ok with that? If the woman is everything you could ever want in a woman, you could look past her past?

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  • spdirty
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    Originally posted by ghwk View Post
    I'm not judging anybody but if you are female and you sleep around you are a whore?? How could that possibly be construed as judgmental?

    Price you are male Taliban. Got a whole set of rules for the lessor folk as you see them.

    How about if "they" sleep around they are simply enjoying their God given body? It was and still is a male Christian church that invented the whole concept of chastity and the sacred Virgin just to keep us all in line.
    You blast him for judging then you judge him by calling him male Taliban?
    Last edited by spdirty; 04-12-2015, 07:34 AM.

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