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Old 06-07-2012, 01:24 AM   #751
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I have read through this thread every time it gets bumped. Seeing the pitfalls that befell mcfoneco/champ. Moving to a strange state, leaving a solid job in a **** economy, raising someone else's daughter. Marrying the hideous bandersnatch. Letting strangers move into your house when you have a newborn. Finding out one of the strangers painted the back of your wife's uterus, letting said uterine painter live in the same house with you for over a month, getting beat like a rented mule in front of the stepdaughter, running to a phone (seriously man, even gay dudes would throw a punch in that situation) and finally ending up with custody of your (maybe) daughter.

I thank God ever day I am a fag. Seriously.

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Old 06-07-2012, 01:25 AM   #752
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Well in some ways this happened to a friend of mine almost 20yrs ago. Instead of the wife's lover living with them she was cheating behind his back. She thought she would get custody of the two very young at the time kids. But my buddy proved she was crazy b**** from Hell, awarded him custody and made her pay child support.

Best thing is, this was the best thing for the kids, mom just wanted to be free to do what she wanted. Father stepped up and raised two amazing children.

So if the story of the op is true, the child could still have an amazing life.

I know its not that similar, story just reminded me of things my friend went through.
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Old 06-07-2012, 02:13 AM   #753
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Wow. I was bored today, waiting for my new gig in China to start next week, so popped on the mane and actually read this whole ****ing thread.

OP, you are a ****ing retard, and even worse, you are a wimp.

You talk about how it was smart or the right decision to allow a man who ****ed your wife to live with you for a month, how he's ended up worse than you.

But all it says to me is you have no pride, no manhood.

1.) You allowed her to jerk you halfway across the country at the expense of your job.
2.) You showed her your advice thread on an internet website because you can't make a ****ing decision for yourself.
3.) You allowed her to mold your thoughts and turn you against the people you asked for advice from, in fact, whats worse, you allow her to turn you against your blood, your family!
4.) You probably were convinced to have a kid with her.
5.) You allow her to decide who moves into your house, paid for with your money, and I don't believe for a minute she doesn't regularly get drunk and go out in reckless fashion, so Kyle probably wasn't the first guy she cheated on you with. And you probably suspected this!
6.) You then let the guy who ****ed your wife in your house to live with you for a month. Citing how good it all turned out....

Look at yourself! Its like you were neutered at birth! Honestly? Its rarely a good idea, but beating the **** out of Kyle would actually show me you have some fight in you, that you can ****ing stand up for yourself and be a ****ing man.

Get some ****ing pride, then maybe you will get a woman that actually respects you, who can help you not **** up the one thing in your life that's worth anything - your child. Its that simple, am I being articulate? no. You don't deserve a nice, or articulate answer, you need to fully grasp how much you've already ****ed things up, how you've put your daughter into a tough situation, how much worse things could've been, and how hard it is for you to now take care of the little girl by yourself.

God I'm so sick of you. You deserve everything you got, only person i have any sympathy for in this entire thread is the Daughter, lord help her, she's got a psycho mom and ****ing retarded chimp as a father, who i sincerely hope can change into a real man in time to raise her.

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Old 06-07-2012, 05:29 AM   #754
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Kid could grow up to be president for all you know,
Let's not get carried away. Vegas odds on that? 100 billion:1. and that's being generous.

Queue Jim Carrey "so you're saying there's a chance" clip
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Old 06-07-2012, 05:34 AM   #755
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There are people who are truly addicted to turmoil and will enable all kinds of ridiculous shiat at their own expense. I don't understand it one bit... but I'm no longer amazed at how incredibly predictable results like are allowed to happen. My wife and I are watching two comparably retarded scenarios in both of our families. You can predict the end result... try to intervene... demand to intervene... beg to intervene... and yet the result is as predictable as the rising sun.
Agree - had a relative get mixed up and make bad decisions - everything's working it self out now - but sheesh - sometimes dumb is dumb and the best thing you can do is hope they get smart sooner than later.
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Old 06-07-2012, 05:40 AM   #756
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Oh how I love some of these responses, basically condemning my daughter already because I'm apparently not a suitable father for her by some folks on here.

As for my daughter, yes she is mine. She was conceived November 2010. Kyle entered the picture December 2011.

Also, if my ex is pregnant, it is not mine. Last time we did it was December 2011, and she wasn't pregnant last time I saw her in February.

I'm not worried about fighting, and throwing money, for forcing her to pay child support at the moment. What is crazy is she actually told me she plans on re-filing for custody, at which point she says she will win because the mother always wins. I'm sure the judge will award her custody after she already abandoned her child, and never put up a fight for her.

And by the way, I did stand up and was a man, I stood up for the one thing important in my life, my daughter, and ensured I would always be in her life, every day, shaping her to be a wonderful person.

I guess people think I should've duked it out with Kyle, nothing got resolved, and me potentially losing my daughter because I would now be deemed a violent person who isn't suitable for raising a child. People, you need to really think things through and sometimes, you gotta take one for the team to come out ahead.

I'm happy now raising my daughter, the best part of my day is when I go to pick her up from daycare and see the excited look on her face when I walk in the door. Let me tell you, NOTHING tops that.
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genuinely glad you're happy being a dad. I imagine that is what your demented ex was counting on, your chivalry and love of kids.

However you need to face the possibility that beautiful girl is not your kid and I say this not to be cruel but to be prepared. Your ex is clearly an unstable wackadoodle b**** who puts herself first and sluts around like a stray cat in heat. Therefore there is some probability she has cheated on you more than with King Neckbeard. Given this history and her history of being a horrible horrible person, she is going to try to take that kid back. At that point she may play the kid really isn't your kid card. Rather then ending up on Jerry Springer, take the lead and get the DNA test yourself. when it comes back as your kid then she can't play that kid and you have info you got, not that she made up. IF the kid is not yours then its better you find out now and not have b****y mcb**** spring it on you. It would suck, but better to deal with it now.

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Old 06-07-2012, 06:04 AM   #758
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If she cheated on you once there is a good chance she did it multiple times. I'm pretty sure paternity tests are fairly cheap.
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Old 06-07-2012, 06:06 AM   #759
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As for my daughter, yes she is mine. She was conceived November 2010. Kyle entered the picture December 2011.
The male population of the world apparently just went down from a few billion to 2.
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The male population of the world apparently just went down from a few billion to 2.
hey, so what are the guys on here then? are you guys really chicks? Dang...that blows....my mind...

also if those two are the only male choices, um...this will not end well.
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Old 06-07-2012, 06:10 AM   #761
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Oh how I love some of these responses, basically condemning my daughter already because I'm apparently not a suitable father for her by some folks on here.
It's possible things will get better and she'll turn out normal but I don't know many normal people that didn't come from a stable upbringing. For the duration of this thread, it sure seems like that's not quite been your situation. You can't discount the benefits of a stable household.
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Old 06-07-2012, 06:13 AM   #762
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As for my daughter, yes she is mine. She was conceived November 2010. Kyle entered the picture December 2011.

Trust me, your ex was screwing around on you with more than just the guy who kicked your ass in your own home after having been screwing your said ex.

You haven't taken one piece of advice that you just had to have since the beginning of this thread, and I highly doubt you would start now, BUT, GET A DNA TEST DONE. Don't wait another min.
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If she cheated on you once there is a good chance she did it multiple times. I'm pretty sure paternity tests are fairly cheap.
If it comes back that he is not the father, the state can make the mother be the one to foot the bill. Normally, you don't pay till after the results.
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If it comes back that he is not the father, the state can make the mother be the one to foot the bill. Normally, you don't pay till after the results.
But what if she gets mad? He'll probably end up taking care of her anyway because she might get mad at him.
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If she cheated on you once there is a good chance she did it multiple times. I'm pretty sure paternity tests are fairly cheap.
At this point he is the kid's father in a legal sense regardless of biological paternity.
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If it comes back that he is not the father, the state can make the mother be the one to foot the bill. Normally, you don't pay till after the results.
Good luck with that.
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At this point he is the kid's father in a legal sense regardless of biological paternity.
According to this thread, he already has a record with Child Protective Services where the wife and kid were removed from the household once. If it turns out she's not his, he won't have a choice. That kid will be sent away.
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Oh how I love some of these responses, basically condemning my daughter already because I'm apparently not a suitable father for her by some folks on here.

As for my daughter, yes she is mine. She was conceived November 2010. Kyle entered the picture December 2011.

Also, if my ex is pregnant, it is not mine. Last time we did it was December 2011, and she wasn't pregnant last time I saw her in February.

I'm not worried about fighting, and throwing money, for forcing her to pay child support at the moment. What is crazy is she actually told me she plans on re-filing for custody, at which point she says she will win because the mother always wins. I'm sure the judge will award her custody after she already abandoned her child, and never put up a fight for her.

And by the way, I did stand up and was a man, I stood up for the one thing important in my life, my daughter, and ensured I would always be in her life, every day, shaping her to be a wonderful person.

I guess people think I should've duked it out with Kyle, nothing got resolved, and me potentially losing my daughter because I would now be deemed a violent person who isn't suitable for raising a child. People, you need to really think things through and sometimes, you gotta take one for the team to come out ahead.

I'm happy now raising my daughter, the best part of my day is when I go to pick her up from daycare and see the excited look on her face when I walk in the door. Let me tell you, NOTHING tops that.
Press her for child support. Not for the money, but to protect your custody rights. She cannot get even split custody if she is behind on child support.
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Agree - had a relative get mixed up and make bad decisions - everything's working it self out now - but sheesh - sometimes dumb is dumb and the best thing you can do is hope they get smart sooner than later.
It goes beyond dumb. Codependency is an addiction.
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It goes beyond dumb. Codependency is an addiction.
Oh I know, i had front row seats. I don't understand why there are so many "broken" people, or why people get so marred by things. You can almost see the breaks/watermarks/scars in people.
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Sadly yes.
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Good luck with that.
Well if that was to happen, it wouldn't be his problem to get the money from her, it would be the states problem.
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the polygraph test will be in 2 years and we will be updated. Here is how it will go...

Toddler got sick and wanted to do some genetic testing. Finds out baby is not his buy Kyle's. Loves kid too much to do anything about it. Baby will be fine but needs serious medication every month that costs $2k a month. Since baby is not genetically his, he has to fight with health insurance to get covered. Mom, since he is not biological father, won't sign over adoption papers until he pays her $10k in hush money. He know is in massive debt and is living in a halfway house. More juice when he meets up with a lady that has triplets with autism and decide to move in together to start a new life and save money on rent....on a 2 bedroom, 1 bath home.

Also, make sure you go after the Ex for child support. My brother took custody of his daughter when his EX decided to stay back in NORTH Carolina after his term in the Air Force. Well, 2 years later, she came crawling back to California wanting 50% of the custody after bailing on her daughter for that same time. Luckily he won and she has visitation rights but if you don't show that she is a total loser, it could bite you in the ass in a few years.
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Leave this message board and do no look back, there is nothing here of you. Go have a life with your daughter who will need you so very much. Good luck to you.
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My advise to Champ24;

Leave this message board and do no look back, there is nothing here of you. Go have a life with your daughter who will need you so very much. Good luck to you.
If had taken the advice here, he wouldn't be in this mess. And before you say "well he has a beautiful daughter now" she probably is adorable and brings him a lot of joy, but she might not even be his child.
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