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Old 06-06-2012, 09:55 AM   #651
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I'm wondering if I should add some excitement to the OMane today and give everybody some updates.
let the magic begin...
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Old 06-06-2012, 09:57 AM   #652
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:00 AM   #653
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there must be bath salts involved...
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:15 AM   #654
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So, for those that missed it, I had a baby girl back in August, http://www.orangemane.com/BB/showthread.php?t=99381
We were living decently near Sugar Land here in Texas, although the Mrs. was still not working after pregnancy, and decided it would be good to try bartending. She also had a few friends that wanted to start fresh, and I agreed they could come live with us, one female and one male. The female got to us in October, we moved into a new place in November, and the male came aboard in December.


I think people may know where this is going...
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:16 AM   #655
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did you fine shiit in the attic?
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:18 AM   #656
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Counting down to Rev's "I told you so" post.
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damn....new baby and bringing more people into the household??

Good luck bro! (no sarcasm)
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:22 AM   #658
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So in December, I'm trying to help this guy get work at the manufacturing company I work at. No go.
Christmas comes, it was a good Christmas for me, my family came over, we all got along, it was fun. Then, around 4-5 when my family starts to leave, the Mrs. pulls me aside and says that Kyle, the new guy, is homesick and sad, and she's going to go take him to the bar.
A few hours pass by, she comes home drunk, I'm upset that she went drinking on Christmas with some other guy. She thought I was being too controlling of her.
Next day, we have some gift cards/XMas money, I wanted to go shopping. She doesn't wake up til about 3 in the afternoon. I again stress that this is a family time, we should be having fun as a family. She thinks I'm overreacting and being controlling.


Fast forward to December 30th, when she pulls me aside, and says I'm changing, and she doesn't like the man I'm changing into, and we should break up, she needs some time to think, take a break, etc.

Well, 2 days later, I confront her about her sleeping with Kyle, and she admits to doing it that day(the 1st). I'm not a happy camper, and almost threw him out of the house. Looking back, probably should have, but the now former Mrs. threatened to leave, with the kids, with him. I just was overwhelmed and didn't know what to do at the time.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:23 AM   #659
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OH

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One of these new Super-Mods should prove themselves to Taco John by giving you a vacation, son. Taco is usually impressed by the one that get there first, might even be a promotion in it for him.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:25 AM   #660
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Damn that's rough

On the "almost threw him out of the house". Why did you not?
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:26 AM   #662
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Damn that's rough

On the "almost threw him out of the house". Why did you not?
for real....Kyle would've been sleeping underneath a bridge with his front teeth knocked out, pronto
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So, to all those folks who in the first few pages of this thread said some variation of "follow your heart, not much to lose, etc".......what say you now?
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So when does porn and a stripper pole get involved here?

Sorry to hear it dude.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:27 AM   #665
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I would've thrown both of 'em out and said good luck taking my kids.
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So what happened to the people that moved in?

Can this be merged with the gun thread?
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:27 AM   #667
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So in December, I'm trying to help this guy get work at the manufacturing company I work at. No go.
Christmas comes, it was a good Christmas for me, my family came over, we all got along, it was fun. Then, around 4-5 when my family starts to leave, the Mrs. pulls me aside and says that Kyle, the new guy, is homesick and sad, and she's going to go take him to the bar.
A few hours pass by, she comes home drunk, I'm upset that she went drinking on Christmas with some other guy. She thought I was being too controlling of her.
Next day, we have some gift cards/XMas money, I wanted to go shopping. She doesn't wake up til about 3 in the afternoon. I again stress that this is a family time, we should be having fun as a family. She thinks I'm overreacting and being controlling.


Fast forward to December 30th, when she pulls me aside, and says I'm changing, and she doesn't like the man I'm changing into, and we should break up, she needs some time to think, take a break, etc.

Well, 2 days later, I confront her about her sleeping with Kyle, and she admits to doing it that day(the 1st). I'm not a happy camper, and almost threw him out of the house. Looking back, probably should have, but the now former Mrs. threatened to leave, with the kids, with him. I just was overwhelmed and didn't know what to do at the time.
Dude.... If true ( I could see you just wanting to mind **** the Omane community), then I am incredibly sorry. I hope you've talked to a family law attorney. You want to keep the connection to the kid and possibly argue for full custody rights until skank has a stable job and place to live.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:28 AM   #668
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If this is real, you deserve every bit of this.

You're dumb.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:28 AM   #669
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Counting down to Rev's "I told you so" post.
Sadly if I did that every time I was right, I wouldn't have the time to continue being right all the time.

It's a paradox
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No, snap out of it!!!!

Hold strong guys ... don't let him drag you under.
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So, to all those folks who in the first few pages of this thread said some variation of "follow your heart, not much to lose, etc".......what say you now?
I would say always follow your heart

Nothing worse than a life un-lived.

If you live to avoid the pain you often will miss the joy.
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I would say always follow your heart

Nothing worse than a life un-lived.

If you live to avoid the pain you often will miss the joy.
Following your heart is one thing. Doing what he was doing was something else. There was no real love if you really read the first few pages of the thread.

The words he used were pretty telling. He was following the other head, not the heart IMO.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:38 AM   #673
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I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

Well, I talked with the landlord, and found a loophole in the lease agreement. Kyle wasn't on the lease, and the lease states guests can not stay longer than 15 days without written permission from the landlord. I tell my landlord I want him gone, so he writes up a letter saying this guest needs to pay extra money or leave within 3 days. Well, upon giving this letter to the former Mrs. and Kyle, the genius decides the best course of action is assaulting me, in front of both kids(one 6 by the way). He started to punch me, knocked me on the ground, then pounded my head against the wall before letting up, at which point I ran to grab the nearest working phone, the former Mrs. phone, and she gets livid, threatening to break my computer if I call the police. Whatever, I dial, she throws my computer on the ground, and then packs up her car she bought with her tax money with Kyle. Police came, I told them they just left, and what happened was he ended up getting arrested with a charge of family violence, and I had an emergency protective order put on him. Should of added my child to it.

Anyways, the former Mrs. isn't too happy, but talks with me about trying things with me again. I'm thinking about the kids, and wondering what she might be up to. Kyle's bailed out by his mom on the premise he return to, you guessed it, Myrtle Beach. She also tried to bribe me to drop the charges. He stays in a hotel room, and finally the former Mrs. actions come to fruition as she takes the children to the hotel room, and says "I'm not safe to be around anymore".

Well, this was on a Sunday, so next day I hire a lawyer to fight for custody of my child. The guy's arraignment is set for the following Thursday, at which point he would plead guilty and they would leave for Myrtle Beach, so I had to get her served ASAP.

Also, to point out here, she threatened if I tried to fight for custody, she would win, so there would be no point.

Well, she gets served on Thursday when she's picking up Kyle from his arraignment in which he pleaded guilty, and was CONVICTED of Family Violence.
An hour later, I get a phone call from the former Mrs. stating if I want my child, to meet her at a Wal Mart parking lot. I agree, go there, and she hands me the child, while forcing me to sign a quick hand written paper saying she relinquishes her rights to the child, and I agree to drop the suit against her.

I contacted my lawyer, told him about the document, which 2 copies were signed, one for me, one for her. He said that doesn't mean squat, you singed it under durress(she threatened if I didn't sign it, she would leave that day to Myrtle Beach with the child), and advised me to continue the suit.

Well, I now had custody of the child, and continuing the suit, and at this point I moved in with my mother as I needed a place to stay, cheap, with the baby. Me and the lawyer waited to see if the former Mrs. filed a response, and she didn't, which means she defaulted, which means I got to present my case to the judge by myself.

In April, I was awarded custody of my daughter, with exclusive rights to her, while the mother is actually due to pay child support, of which I doubt I see a dime of.

In fact, in her haste to leave Texas, she never registered and changed the title of her car from when she bought it, and left the title. Why is this important? Because she was more concerned asking me to mail her the title than asking if her daughter started walking yet.

I ignore communication with the mother, and continue to post updates on the website I was court ordered to use.

Moral to the story:
Everything happens for a reason(I have a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing daughter)
Don't ever, ever, ever seek long term relationships with a crazy woman
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Following your heart is one thing. Doing what he was doing was something else. There was no real love if you really read the first few pages of the thread.

The words he used were pretty telling. He was following the other head, not the heart IMO.
None the less it was HIS decision to make. He had the experience he needed to grow. Life is not without pain.

I can think of nothing worse than being at the end of your life regretting the things you did not do.

It was easy for us all to see this might not end well for him but it was something he needed to do. Good things often come out of emotional pain. Wisdom for one.
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I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.
And stopped reading.

You really let this dude live with you for over a MONTH after he ****ed your wife?!?!?!
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