Ive just be informed my father has passed

[Los Broncos]

Just got off of the phone with my aunt that i haven't talked too in 17 years!

She informed me that my father passed away last year from cancer.

He was an alcoholic and drug user, he passed away peacefully with no pain.

The last time i seen him was the summer of 91.

A lot of things come to mind at this time.

The times we had, the things we never did together.

He never got to see his grandson, we never got to attend a football game.

The hardest part is never getting to say goodbye to him.

In his suffering he asked about me many times and i thought of him.

It hurts to know that i will never see him again or my son will never meet him.

I'm just asking for support from some of you, it would make me feel a lot better.

[Spider]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

Just got off of the phone with my aunt that i haven't talked too in 17 years!

She informed me that my father passed away last year from cancer.

He was an alcoholic and drug user, he passed away peacefully with no pain.

The last time i seen him was the summer of 91.

A lot of things come to mind at this time.

The times we had, the things we never did together.

He never got to see his grandson, we never got to attend a football game.

The hardest part is never getting to say goodbye to him.

In his suffering he asked about me many times and i thought of him.

It hurts to know that i will never see him again or my son will never meet him.

I'm just asking for support from some of you, it would make me feel a lot better.

Man ... sorry to hear that Bro , I know it may not mean much , but at least you can learn from your dad mistakes , with your kids

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Spider

Man ... sorry to hear that Bro , I know it may not mean much , but at least you can learn from your dad mistakes , with your kids

Thanks Spider, me and my son are close and thats something that me and my dad never had.

I just want to give him what my father never did for me.

[Sassy]

Sorry Lynch
How come she didn't call you sooner?

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Sassy

Sorry Lynch
How come she didn't call you sooner?

Well, back in 89 her mother and brother died.

It was a hard time for her because we were close.

We lost contact and she didn't know where to find me.

I just wish i would have tried to find her sooner.

I looked her up in the whites pages, first person i found was her.

[Orange_Beard]

Sorry to hear that. Don't know what else to say.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Orange_Beard

Sorry to hear that. Don't know what else to say.

Thats all i need man, thank you.

I have support from my remaining family, it just feels good to know you care a little.

[Orange_Beard]

I wish there were more I could say or do.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Orange_Beard

I wish there were more I could say or do.

I feel ya, same here.

[Sassy]

So you contacted your Aunt then? That makes sense now.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Sassy

So you contacted your Aunt then? That makes sense now.

Well for the past couple of months ive been trying to find my father, no luck.

So today i went to whitepages.com and found her, called her up and left a message.

[Los Broncos]

I don't mean to get all milky, but all i ever wanted was a father.

It hurts more now then ever.

[AZ!]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

I don't mean to get all milky, but all i ever wanted was a father.

It hurts more now then ever.

I know it's hard because I am in the same boat, not exactly because my father is still alive. However, when I think of my father (since we have never spent any real time together) I try to always remember the good things. The things we have never done together, I sure make sure that I do them with my kids.

Stay strong and hang in there brother, things will get better over time. My prayers will be with you and your family during this difficult time!

[Bronx33]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

I don't mean to get all milky, but all i ever wanted was a father.

It hurts more now then ever.

Just keep your head up and be there for your kids,

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Bronx33

Just keep your head up and be there for your kids,

Thanks Bronx, thank you.

[broncocalijohn]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

I don't mean to get all milky, but all i ever wanted was a father.

It hurts more now then ever.

sorry about your loss but the best thing to do is end the cycle of bad parenting. Seems you have done that with your son. Best thing is not to mimic the wrongs of people that are supposed to direct us the correct way in life, but to do the opposite and learn from it. I hope you can go through this tough time. I hear a game in San Diego helps a little.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by broncocalijohn

sorry about your loss but the best thing to do is end the cycle of bad parenting. Seems you have done that with your son. Best thing is not to mimic the wrongs of people that are supposed to direct us the correct way in life, but to do the opposite and learn from it. I hope you can go through this tough time. I hear a game in San Diego helps a little.

Thanks John, im working on the SD game.

[Blueflame]

I'm so sorry to hear the news, Lynch... many positive thoughts and prayers will be coming your way.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by Blueflame

I'm so sorry to hear the news, Lynch... many positive thoughts and prayers will be coming your way.

Thank you Blue very much.

[Beantown Bronco]

Sorry to hear the news.....

[sutoazul]

hey Sorry Lynch to know you've been going through this. It truly sucks. I hope the best for you and your son. Take this bad experience and build it into a positive one with your own kid. Teach him the value in that too.

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by sutoazul

hey Sorry Lynch to know you've been going through this. It truly sucks. I hope the best for you and your son. Take this bad experience and build it into a positive one with your own kid. Teach him the value in that too.

Thank you, i use this as a positive.

[smalltowngrll]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

Just got off of the phone with my aunt that i haven't talked too in 17 years!

She informed me that my father passed away last year from cancer.

He was an alcoholic and drug user, he passed away peacefully with no pain.

The last time i seen him was the summer of 91.

A lot of things come to mind at this time.

The times we had, the things we never did together.

He never got to see his grandson, we never got to attend a football game.

The hardest part is never getting to say goodbye to him.

In his suffering he asked about me many times and i thought of him.

It hurts to know that i will never see him again or my son will never meet him.

I'm just asking for support from some of you, it would make me feel a lot better.

Lynch...I'm sorry to hear of your news.

I do know somewhat how you feel as I found out a year later that my natural father (who was an alcoholic, too) passed away. That was back in 2001.

Though you never were able to 'say' goodbye, you still have the opportunity to take the good things from him and allow them to live on in you and your son. You will be able to show your son the good things about your father!

Always remember that our loved ones who have passed live on in us and the memories we hold close to!!

My thoughts and prayers are with you!!

[Los Broncos]

Originally Posted by smalltowngrll

Lynch...I'm sorry to hear of your news.

I do know somewhat how you feel as I found out a year later that my natural father (who was an alcoholic, too) passed away. That was back in 2001.

Though you never were able to 'say' goodbye, you still have the opportunity to take the good things from him and allow them to live on in you and your son. You will be able to show your son the good things about your father!

Always remember that our loved ones who have passed live on in us and the memories we hold close to!!

My thoughts and prayers are with you!!

Thank you STG, i just think about the short time we had together.

Memories mend the pain.

[TailgateNut]

Originally Posted by Lynchmob72

Just got off of the phone with my aunt that i haven't talked too in 17 years!

She informed me that my father passed away last year from cancer.

He was an alcoholic and drug user, he passed away peacefully with no pain.

The last time i seen him was the summer of 91.

A lot of things come to mind at this time.

The times we had, the things we never did together.

He never got to see his grandson, we never got to attend a football game.

The hardest part is never getting to say goodbye to him.

In his suffering he asked about me many times and i thought of him.

It hurts to know that i will never see him again or my son will never meet him.

I'm just asking for support from some of you, it would make me feel a lot better.

Lynch, my condolances. May you find peace in knowing he passed away peacefully.

One question for you. Why haven't you seen nor stayed in contact for over 16 years?