Originally Posted by Jason in LA
I'm not telling you what I think, I'm telling you what many men that I've spoken to have said. You don't know what men in general think because men aren't going to say those things to a woman. If you could bug a room where there are going to be only men, your jaw would drop over the things that are said. As a man I know what is said. I know what is the common view. And it's totally different from what women think it is.
Many men apparently like to go around expounding the theory put forth in When Harry Met Sally.
Your mistake is thinking women are ignorant of the things we'd hear when bugging a room. Wrong. We know exactly what is said and how it is said. We know the common view as expressed by the common.