[Garcia Bronco]

Originally Posted by FADERPROOF

We're two peas in a pod.

I'm also tired of being single, but I'm not goign to settle down until I find someone significant, the ones I've been with have merely been sexual things and I didn't want it to go any farther than that.

The reason why I shy away from relationships, is because I am scared in a sense of one. I had a bad beat story like yours(minus the whole her being a psycho) that has made me afraid of committment, because I don't want to go down that path ever again.

I was with a chick for over a year and a half, then she broke up with me citing the whole "wrong time, we're young and want to experience other things" and all that other ****. So it was cool, but we stayed together "unofficially", like we were seeing each other(or friends with benefits situation technically, but more than jsut friends.) Then the summer hits, and while me and her are technically still together, my best friend gives me the ole backstab as he hooks up with her and next thing I know, I'm kicked to the curb while her and my best friend are seeing each other(former best friend now.) She also had a few other guys that summer as well, I didn't find out until the end of summer and I wasn't too happy about it. I wouldn't have been as amd if she was jsut honest with me, but she kept everything else a secret and kept me thinking that me and her were together.

Me and her are decent friends still, but no way do I think about getting with her ever again, along with just about every other woman.

So that is why I have become relationship afraid, and why I have held out for over 3 years of getting into a relationship because although I'm tired of being single, I'm looking for the right woman.

Or one that I can get her hooked on me before she knows better.

Dude...that b**** is a sperm burping pig...please tell her I said so..honestly you can't let that affect how you see the rest of them...but I can relate.