Originally Posted by Bronco_Beerslug
I don't know for sure but one of my girlfriends awhile back has a brother and a son who are gay. They both are intelligent, good people just gay. And both told me they were sure they didn't have a choice about sexual orientation, that it was just the way it was.
Having had a few gay friends over the years i have heard both sides of that story. Something to keep in mind, when I say choice too many people think of it as a concious decision made at a particular moment in time. Scenarios that i have heard before invole relationships with their parents (especially the dads) and simply greater acceptance within a particular group that led them to be emersed in that life style. These aren't single points in time where they made a choice but rather life long influences that steered a person one way or another...
Having said that i also feel you would have to be wired somewhat differently to accept such a life style.