People are not bigots for having different opinions. Unless it is the westboro baptist church. Those ****ers are just crazy and should be thrown into a pit.
The reality is, the definition of marriage is changing. In the west, that now includes same sex marriages. It is not even the same country to country. You realize for most of human history marriages were arranged? Your spouse was selected for you. In parts of the world today (India, China, SE Asia, the ME and North Africa) that still happens.
Supreme Court did the correct thing. They have affirmed that under federal law, a marriage is a marriage, regardless of the genders of the two involved in it. It is not an affront or assault on traditional marriage (as we see it). Just an expansion of what marriage is under federal law.
Surprisingly, life will go on.