Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ
I disagree. Sexuality is an act. You have to act on it for it to become a sexual real. Like I said, I don't know why men sleep with men, I don't understand that attraction. However, I do recognize that people have sexual desires. You do have a choice, either act on those sexual desires or abstain. It's a choice. People like you don't understand this choice so you try to justify it by saying "it's not a choice." But it is. Just like masturbation is a choice. All sexuality, that is, the act of having sex IS a choice.
I think people are misunderstanding you, Tombstone. I want to help with the clarification. You are saying that the act, ITSELF, is a choice (which would be a true statement). How about those desires? Are the DESIRES of a man to sleep with a man, a choice? I think that's the heart of the issue...