Originally Posted by peacepipe
So you,yes you,have every desire to sleep with men,but choose to sleep with a women. Sexuality isn't dictated by what you do,but what you feel. You sleep with women cause you in your heart desire a woman. A men sleeps with a men because in their heart they desire a men. There are gay priests,that honor their vows,and guess what they're still gay. It's not a choice.
I disagree. Sexuality is an act. You have to act on it for it to become a sexual reality. Like I said, I don't know why men sleep with men, I don't understand that attraction. However, I do recognize that people have sexual desires. You do have a choice, either act on those sexual desires or abstain. It's a choice. People like you don't understand this choice so you try to justify it by saying "it's not a choice." But it is. Just like masturbation is a choice. All sexuality, that is, the act of having sex IS a choice.