Originally Posted by glennst
A few thoughts
- Don't ask for relationship advice. You should be able to make up your own mind about this kind of thing. You know what will make you happy; go for that.
- If you are going to ask for advice, an internet forum is probably the worst place to do it. How can you trust some anonymous text that claims to be the voice of experience. Half of these "players" are probably unemployed, fat guys who have never touched a woman. The other half are bitter about their own failed/miserable relationships and are happy to feed you bad advice.
- I met my wife at work. We even shared the same office and worked together for a few years. We have been married 6 years and are very happy.
- It does not matter WHERE you meet someone, only WHO they are.
Hey! I work at three jobs; and I'm just big-boned!
I met my wife at work and we've been married for seven years - eight in May - and we have three kids. I've met a number of girlfriends in the past through workplace relationships. Some ended awkwardly, others just ended. There are a lot of variables that factor in, so a blanket response of what to do is pretty much invalid. At the most, you may just want to read everyone's anectdotes and learn through other peoples experiences, but you're still going to be the best judge of what to do.