Originally Posted by Bacchus
My dad died in 2001. Its surprisingly not that big a deal. It is when it happens but it is amazing how fast things go back to normal. The world keeps turning and life goes on.
cold as that sounds it's very true.
as much as sulking may seem to be the ideal thing, you can't do anything for them by being a mess.
the world doesn't stop for your pain and will have no sympathy for you.
the best thing you can do is cherish the time you had with them, honor their memory as best you can and hope that they're in a better place.