I don't know if it's a money issue or a lack of help.
If I was ever lucky enough to get to tailgate with Meck and the crew I know I would not ever assume to reach into any cooler or grab any food without it being offered to me and I would donate for sure. Just the way I was raised I guess. Maybe if more did this then at least the money issue if that is the problem would be nonexistent.
As far as help , I live in KC and when I do get out to a game once in awhile I will plan in some extra time to help out any way I can. THis along with the money issue is pretty common sense stuff........easily remedied if you treat others like you would want to be treated.
There is always a few that F... it up for the rest, I understand his frustation....hang in there...........