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RhymesayersDU
05-19-2010, 08:52 PM
One thing I didn't see anybody mention was this --

Dude is stunting his professional growth so much. He's got an accounting degree. That and a $1 will get you on the bus. Accountants do OK for themselves, I got an accounting degree and do fine as a tax accountant for right now. I won't post what I make, as that's not the point. But I do OK for myself as a 26-year old guy with a mortgage but no girlfriend or kids. I.E., I just take care of myself.

You know where the money is? Getting your CPA license. Even if he hooks on with an accounting firm, he'll never be promotable without it. I'm 3/4 of the way done with mine. Does he have a lot of time to do it? Sure. He has the rest of his life. I'm a year older than he is. But (1) these tests are expensive and (2) with all his time and money tied up in moving and playing daddy, I guarantee you he doesn't even attempt to sit for the 4 exams any time soon. And then it will become one of those "Well, maybe next year. Maybe when I don't have _____" going on. Etc.

Have fun being a bookkeeper the rest of your life, I'm sure maxing out at $40K will make this all worth it. And I know that is ridiculously condescending, but this was a terrible decision.

theAPAOps5
05-19-2010, 09:06 PM
Maxing out at 40K? Jesus that is what I started at coming out of college. Glad I didn't go into accounting.

RhymesayersDU
05-19-2010, 09:12 PM
That may be a little harsh as I'm making 50 w/o the CPA... But there's really zero point in having an accounting degree or being in the field w/o getting the CPA license. He'll never get promoted or move up at any respectable accounting firm.

baja
05-19-2010, 09:14 PM
One thing I didn't see anybody mention was this --

Dude is stunting his professional growth so much. He's got an accounting degree. That and a $1 will get you on the bus. Accountants do OK for themselves, I got an accounting degree and do fine as a tax accountant for right now. I won't post what I make, as that's not the point. But I do OK for myself as a 26-year old guy with a mortgage but no girlfriend or kids. I.E., I just take care of myself.

You know where the money is? Getting your CPA license. Even if he hooks on with an accounting firm, he'll never be promotable without it. I'm 3/4 of the way done with mine. Does he have a lot of time to do it? Sure. He has the rest of his life. I'm a year older than he is. But (1) these tests are expensive and (2) with all his time and money tied up in moving and playing daddy, I guarantee you he doesn't even attempt to sit for the 4 exams any time soon. And then it will become one of those "Well, maybe next year. Maybe when I don't have _____" going on. Etc.

Have fun being a bookkeeper the rest of your life, I'm sure maxing out at $40K will make this all worth it. And I know that is ridiculously condescending, but this was a terrible decision.

Wow I have made that in a week a few times. Grateful to say.

RhymesayersDU
05-19-2010, 09:18 PM
Then you should have pitched in for Marshall's contract, cheapskate!

SouthStndJunkie
05-19-2010, 09:30 PM
Wow I have made that in a week a few times. Grateful to say.

Transporting cocaine in your anus across the border is risky business.

RhymesayersDU
05-19-2010, 09:32 PM
Transporting cocaine in your anus across the border is risky business.

But it feels so good!

/this thread is going downhill

24champ
05-19-2010, 09:37 PM
Transporting cocaine in your anus across the border is risky business.

Ha!

Not as risky when you survive on sun gazing and water when crossing the desert border.

baja
05-19-2010, 09:40 PM
Transporting cocaine in your anus across the border is risky business.

Now you know why I needed all the Colon Blow. ;D

baja
05-19-2010, 09:42 PM
Ha!

Not as risky when you survive on sun gazing and water when crossing the desert border.

Shut up about the sun gazing until you've tried it Grasshopper. ;D

SouthStndJunkie
05-19-2010, 09:42 PM
Now you know why I needed all the Colon Blow. ;D

Literally.

baja
05-19-2010, 09:44 PM
Literally.

That made me laugh. Good one Junkie.

Jason in LA
05-19-2010, 10:05 PM
/this thread is going downhill

Going down hill? Man I'm happy this thread is back!

azbroncfan
05-19-2010, 10:12 PM
What was the final decision?

RockPaperSissors
05-19-2010, 10:16 PM
PS

I Won.

HILife
05-19-2010, 11:02 PM
welcome back thread. We missed you.

broncocalijohn
05-19-2010, 11:24 PM
Going down hill? Man I'm happy this thread is back!

Not me. I only expect this to be bumped when McFonecofup comes back to report on his, "so I walk into our bedroom after 6 hours of babysitting her kid, when I saw my girlfriend and her ex doing it on our bed." Then his next line is, "what do I do next?" Until then, let the thread die. Dont worry as he will be bringing this back before Training Camp starts.

broncocalijohn
05-19-2010, 11:25 PM
PS

I Won.

in spelling 100% of your post correctly? Yes you did. 2 out of 2 (if you dont count PS). Congrats!

Dagmar
05-19-2010, 11:27 PM
21 pages! I think I missed something...

Miss I.
05-19-2010, 11:51 PM
21 pages! I think I missed something...

Here let me sum up:
A guy saunters into a Bronco Forum known as the OM, and starts a thread asking for serious advice (clearly a mistake from the beginning). He's thinking of moving to Myrtle Beach where his girlfriend is from along with her child from a previous relationship. Currently they are in Texas where his family is and doesn't like her. She is a high school dropout, who plans on pursuing a GED someday (she's 22) and he has a Bachelors in accounting or business and works a moderately paid job in Texas. she can't seem to hold a job she likes or pays enough to make it worth continuing.

He asked if we thought he should move with her. Advice ran from follow your heart to get a job first before moving there to what are you an idiot?

the best part was when he showed her the thread. Full on mania followed.

that's it in a nutshell

Jason in LA
05-20-2010, 12:56 AM
Not me. I only expect this to be bumped when McFonecofup comes back to report on his, "so I walk into our bedroom after 6 hours of babysitting her kid, when I saw my girlfriend and her ex doing it on our bed." Then his next line is, "what do I do next?" Until then, let the thread die. Dont worry as he will be bringing this back before Training Camp starts.

It's like watching a car crash. You have to watch. And this crash is going to be epic.

kappys
05-20-2010, 07:36 AM
It's like watching a car crash. You have to watch. And this crash is going to be epic.

Well as long as the guy doesn't have a kid with her at least he has an exit strategy.

gyldenlove
05-20-2010, 08:25 AM
I am happy to see this thread still alive after my 2 week hiatus. This thread is so full of win.

Rohirrim
05-20-2010, 08:51 AM
Are we expecting an update?

Jason in LA
05-20-2010, 09:02 AM
Well as long as the guy doesn't have a kid with her at least he has an exit strategy.

Yeah we went over that. We've come to the conclusion that he will be knocking her up, and that will be another excuse for her not to get her GED or get a job.

Tombstone RJ
05-20-2010, 09:09 AM
Yeah we went over that. We've come to the conclusion that he will be knocking her up, and that will be another excuse for her not to get her GED or get a job.

Actually, I think we can all agree she'll be getting knocked up again, but just not by this poster. I'm thinking they move back to Myrtle Beach and she hooks up with the father of her child while McFoneco is at work. It's the perfect situation for her because she can now claim it's actually his child...

Beantown Bronco
05-20-2010, 09:23 AM
I'd pretty much guarantee she's already cheated on OP at least 3 times.

It isn't cheating if it isn't in the vag...

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Jason in LA
05-20-2010, 09:42 AM
Actually, I think we can all agree she'll be getting knocked up again, but just not by this poster. I'm thinking they move back to Myrtle Beach and she hooks up with the father of her child while McFoneco is at work. It's the perfect situation for her because she can now claim it's actually his child...

I wonder if he'll wear his Broncos jersey when he goes on the show.

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Beantown Bronco
05-20-2010, 11:09 AM
Any chance one of the mods can change his screen name to Dr ******?

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gyldenlove
05-20-2010, 11:15 AM
Yeah we went over that. We've come to the conclusion that he will be knocking her up, and that will be another excuse for her not to get her GED or get a job.

How are we still calling her a him? that man-card was clearly revoked. You guys need to get on the level and accept that the man-train pulled out of the station with whats-her-face standing on the platform waving good buy to any shred of dignity she might have had.

Miss I.
05-20-2010, 11:18 AM
How are we still calling her a him? that man-card was clearly revoked. You guys need to get on the level and accept that the man-train pulled out of the station with whats-her-face standing on the platform waving good buy to any shred of dignity she might have had.

hey, you are not making him a girl. We are way tougher than you bunch of babies. Don't make me fly back across the Atlantic and break out an extra strength can of whoop a$$ on you. :kiss:

Rabb
05-20-2010, 11:18 AM
I wonder how quickly he regretted this thread?

I will say this, at least he didn't bitch out like dragster (I think that's who did it) and delete the thread

TheChamp24
05-20-2010, 03:06 PM
So guys, here I go to get some food, and I come back and notice the kid is locked in her room, and my girl in the bedroom making weird noises. I begin looking through the door, and while I notice my girl making out with some random guy, I notice my authentic Champ Bailey jersey stitching is starting to fall apart. How do I fix that, can I just take it to some tailoring store and get it patched up? Or should I just get a new one?

Old Dude
05-20-2010, 03:06 PM
I think the one thing we've all learned from this thread is that it generally ain't such a hot idea to ask for serious relationship advice on an internet sports board.

Rohirrim
05-20-2010, 03:11 PM
I think the one thing we've all learned from this thread is that it generally ain't such a hot idea to ask for serious relationship advice on an internet sports board.

I think it went very well. ;D

Jason in LA
05-20-2010, 03:28 PM
I think the one thing we've all learned from this thread is that it generally ain't such a hot idea to ask for serious relationship advice on an internet sports board.

You got that right. lol

baja
05-20-2010, 04:06 PM
I think the one thing we've all learned from this thread is that it generally ain't such a hot idea to ask for serious relationship advice on an internet sports board.


If he survived the thread he actually got some pretty good advice.

Popps
05-20-2010, 04:11 PM
So guys, here I go to get some food, and I come back and notice the kid is locked in her room, and my girl in the bedroom making weird noises. I begin looking through the door, and while I notice my girl making out with some random guy, I notice my authentic Champ Bailey jersey stitching is starting to fall apart. How do I fix that, can I just take it to some tailoring store and get it patched up? Or should I just get a new one?

http://www.theodoresworld.net/pcfreezone/huhImage2.jpg

randomtask
05-20-2010, 05:47 PM
So guys, here I go to get some food, and I come back and notice the kid is locked in her room, and my girl in the bedroom making weird noises. I begin looking through the door, and while I notice my girl making out with some random guy, I notice my authentic Champ Bailey jersey stitching is starting to fall apart. How do I fix that, can I just take it to some tailoring store and get it patched up? Or should I just get a new one?

If the jersey's only fraying a little, don't worry about it. gives it character.

If it's already suffered significant damage, get rid of it, falling apart after, at most, 6 years, then it's a bad quality jersey.

So how many times have you noticed her making out with random guys?

gunns
05-20-2010, 07:36 PM
hey, you are not making him a girl. We are way tougher than you bunch of babies. Don't make me fly back across the Atlantic and break out an extra strength can of whoop a$$ on you. :kiss:

:thumbsup:

OABB
05-21-2010, 12:16 AM
So guys, here I go to get some food, and I come back and notice the kid is locked in her room, and my girl in the bedroom making weird noises. I begin looking through the door, and while I notice my girl making out with some random guy, I notice my authentic Champ Bailey jersey stitching is starting to fall apart. How do I fix that, can I just take it to some tailoring store and get it patched up? Or should I just get a new one?

You should wait till the jersey Falls apart and is totally worthless and than move to Myrtle beach with it.

cousinal11
05-21-2010, 05:47 AM
You should wait till the jersey Falls apart and is totally worthless and than move to Myrtle beach with it.

:rofl:

broncocalijohn
05-21-2010, 10:50 AM
You should wait till the jersey Falls apart and is totally worthless and than move to Myrtle beach with it.

Then get the jersey pregnant and the little one will be a #6 jersey. Probably have twins and have an #82 Marcus Nash jersey. The horra!

RockPaperSissors
05-21-2010, 10:51 AM
boys will be boys

OABB
05-21-2010, 11:06 AM
boys will be boys

in before you ruin thread again.

Dagmar
05-21-2010, 11:09 AM
in before you ruin thread again.

Does "April 2010" registration date throw up alarm bells for everyone else...?

RockPaperSissors
05-21-2010, 11:11 AM
If you knew how hot i am you would be nicer

OABB
05-21-2010, 11:13 AM
If you knew how hot i am you would be nicer

YOU ARE NOT GOOD AT THIS!

I'm all for trolling and double registry, but at least be clever.

BroncoBuff
05-21-2010, 11:55 AM
Wtf bumped this thread?

Haven't we had enough?

Jason in LA
05-21-2010, 12:08 PM
If you knew how hot i am you would be nicer

Sorry, but there are hot chicks all over the place. No need to kiss any of their butts. And being nice to you on the internet isn't going to lead to anything.

Dukes
11-13-2010, 08:35 AM
So did you move or what?

Jason in LA
11-13-2010, 10:17 AM
Man this thread was awesome.

UberBroncoMan
11-13-2010, 10:24 AM
It has passed the 6 month mark already...I wonder what the status of things is.

Dukes
11-13-2010, 10:27 AM
He hasn't changed his location status, though he could be to ashamed to update that to S.C.

Miss I.
11-29-2010, 11:50 AM
I feel it's time to bump this thread. For one I want to share the joy of this Huffington Post about inappropriately named businesses: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/11/21/the-most-inappropriate-bu_n_786623.html#s187901

The best part of that article is inappropriate business #37 in Myrtle Beach, SC so I thought I'd bump the thread.

Here's the business.

http://i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/13750/slide_13750_189749_large.jpg?1291056579786

zdoor
11-29-2010, 12:05 PM
I feel it's time to bump this thread. For one I want to share the joy of this Huffington Post about inappropriately named businesses: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/11/21/the-most-inappropriate-bu_n_786623.html#s187901

The best part of that article is inappropriate business #37 in Myrtle Beach, SC so I thought I'd bump the thread.

Here's the business.

http://i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/13750/slide_13750_189749_large.jpg?1291056579786

Classic..

chadta
11-29-2010, 12:09 PM
He hasn't changed his location status, though he could be to ashamed to update that to S.C.

i like myrtle beach, but im only ever around for a week at a time, might be one of those nice places to visit


Miss I, i am going to look for that place next time im in myrtle beach, i feel obligated to pose for a picture infront of it in bronco orange

http://www.suckbangblow.com/

i see its supposed to be bike related, they should have just left it suck squeeze bang blow instead of removing the 1 stroke

gyldenlove
11-29-2010, 12:19 PM
Best bump in quite a while, this thread had it all.

oubronco
11-29-2010, 12:24 PM
If you knew how hot i am you would be nicer

Pics are a must :approve:

broncocalijohn
11-29-2010, 12:43 PM
Saw this in my User and forgot what the hell it was. HOF thread and glad I gave my advice. Dont think he listened but an update is needed.

HILife
11-29-2010, 01:34 PM
I feel it's time to bump this thread. For one I want to share the joy of this Huffington Post about inappropriately named businesses: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/11/21/the-most-inappropriate-bu_n_786623.html#s187901

The best part of that article is inappropriate business #37 in Myrtle Beach, SC so I thought I'd bump the thread.

Here's the business.

http://i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/13750/slide_13750_189749_large.jpg?1291056579786

lol, I'm going to have to visit that place. This is a HoF thread!

TheChamp24
11-29-2010, 01:36 PM
I was thinking to myself, what should I say?
The truth, make something up, or just don't say anything.

Well, I'm going to go silent and see what everybody thinks up.

chadta
11-29-2010, 01:36 PM
Best bump in quite a while, this thread had it all.

sumtin to take the sting away from how bad we suck on the feild

HILife
11-29-2010, 01:39 PM
I was thinking to myself, what should I say?
The truth, make something up, or just don't say anything.

Well, I'm going to go silent and see what everybody thinks up.

Don't leave us in suspense.

Beantown Bronco
11-29-2010, 01:40 PM
I was thinking to myself, what should I say?
The truth, make something up, or just don't say anything.

Well, I'm going to go silent and see what everybody thinks up.

I can't tell if this is you or the girlfriend posting.

chadta
11-29-2010, 01:49 PM
ill be in myrtle beach for new years, ill let ya buy me a beer and tell me the whole story

Rabb
11-29-2010, 01:53 PM
ill be in myrtle beach for new years, ill let ya buy me a beer and tell me the whole story

I am guessing you can get more than that, jussayin'

supermanhr9
11-29-2010, 01:55 PM
My guess is, you moved out there, have 4 more kids, 2 of which aren't yours?

TheChamp24
11-29-2010, 01:58 PM
My guess is, you moved out there, have 4 more kids, 2 of which aren't yours?

I had 2 kids of my own that were born in less than 6 months, and 2 more from another dude?
What have you been smoking? Can I haz some?

Miss I.
11-29-2010, 02:03 PM
I had 2 kids of my own that were born in less than 6 months, and 2 more from another dude?
What have you been smoking? Can I haz some?

well you could've adopted some and she could have already been pregnant with twins or something. I suppose it's feasible, unlikely, but possible.

Pony Boy
11-29-2010, 02:45 PM
I remember words of wisdom from my old football coach he said remember boys "p***Y is undefeated".

HILife
11-29-2010, 03:04 PM
I had 2 kids of my own that were born in less than 6 months, and 2 more from another dude?
What have you been smoking? Can I haz some?

That just means you're a Pimp. Brush your shoulders off, homey.

http://image57.webshots.com/157/2/58/78/2882258780068596649TIFmyb_ph.jpg

HILife
11-29-2010, 03:15 PM
I remember words of wisdom from my old football coach he said remember boys "p***Y is undefeated".

Da power of the P.U.S.S.Y

http://www.mediamassacre.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Jay-Z.jpg

brncs_fan
11-29-2010, 09:17 PM
I was thinking to myself, what should I say?
The truth, make something up, or just don't say anything.

Well, I'm going to go silent and see what everybody thinks up.

She looks like this:

http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:I_J7m90dsbk1zM:http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a23/savella0513/fat-chick.jpg&t=1

Lev Vyvanse
11-29-2010, 09:22 PM
Don't leave us in suspense.

http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/3/1262055260350.jpg

Pony Boy
11-29-2010, 10:19 PM
She looks like this:

http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:I_J7m90dsbk1zM:http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a23/savella0513/fat-chick.jpg&t=1

When they are that big you gotta roll them in flour and look for the wet spot

broncocalijohn
11-29-2010, 10:36 PM
When they are that big you gotta roll them in flour and look for the wet spot

First, who is gonna roll 'em and 2nd, what the **** are you doing with a dinosaur?

Jason in LA
11-30-2010, 12:17 AM
I remember words of wisdom from my old football coach he said remember boys "p***Y is undefeated".

That is not true!

TheChamp24
11-30-2010, 08:28 PM
http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/3/1262055260350.jpg

http://blog.sumra.ca/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/2356i_m_back.jpg

theAPAOps5
11-30-2010, 09:42 PM
Back to Texas or back from a breakup? :)

TheReverend
11-30-2010, 09:46 PM
Back to Texas or back from a breakup? :)

Both

TheChamp24
12-08-2010, 01:38 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

NUB
12-08-2010, 01:42 PM
Amusingly, had you actually beat the kid she would have said nothing.

Learn from this experience!

oubronco
12-08-2010, 01:42 PM
UhOh dude

Beantown Bronco
12-08-2010, 01:42 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnkefjCES-4

randomtask
12-08-2010, 01:43 PM
I really don't know what to make of this. I'm sorry, but this is very bizarre.

rugbythug
12-08-2010, 02:17 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.
Hope this is a bad joke. Otherwise it is a primer on how to ruin your life.

broncocalijohn
12-08-2010, 02:47 PM
While a sad story lets us back up to an important sentence...."Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being 'dangerous'."

So, we have figured out that you are as dumb as her! Hope this problem is fixed but damn dummy, you brought this situation on yourself.

worm
12-08-2010, 03:12 PM
In before dogpile on the rabbit.

broncocalijohn
12-08-2010, 03:24 PM
Did some research and found at least one person that told McFoneco (BTW, nice time to change your name- FOneco now approves of it) something important...

Okay, I think we need to give McFoneco some different advice. He obviously doesn't want to take sound advice about getting out of a situation that is bound to fail. So how can his situation actually work? Too many people get into a situation expecting to be the exception to the rule, but they have no idea how to be the exception, so they end up screwed like most other people in that similar situation.
One last piece of advice. It's been said by a number of people here, do not get this woman pregnant!!!! If you two are going to work then she needs to meet certain goals. Getting knocked up will kill all of those goals. You think she'd go to college with one kid and a second on the way? That would just be another excuse for her to use. It seems like she's good at using excuses. And be careful because she might want to have that excuse. She might want to have a kid with you really soon just so you're stuck taking care of her and she doesn't have to do anything. Some women do that. So if she says she's on the pill you better still use a condom every time. If she tells you that she doesn't want you to use it then you know what she's trying to do. She's trying to get knocked up. That should tell you that you're screwed.
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Bottom line, you're trying to be Captain Save a Ho. That's a tough job. The only way to save her is if she wants to be saved, and if she's willing to do the work, which is what I question. Based on what you've told us I don't think she's going to want to stick to any plan that requires her to do anything. So that's where you have to put your foot down, and you have to be ready to leave the relationship if she doesn't comply. Remember, you have no real attachment to her, so leaving is simply. And that's why we've told you not to get her pregnant. If you do then you will be tied to her and she could just sit back and do a whole lot of nothing. As long as there is a threat of you leaving, if she really wants to make it work then she'll stick to the plan. But if she's fighting the plan, then you know that she's just using you as a meal ticket. If you sense that then get out of there.
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Hopefully this is advice that you will take, sense it is going along the lines of what you want.
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If only he listened Jason.

vancejohnson82
12-08-2010, 03:25 PM
wow....im here eating a corndog in Newark, NJ, watching Japanese Anime Porn and missing my ex girlfriend...decided to log on here for a moment

thank God I did....this makes me feel a lot better about myself

this update can't be true

gyldenlove
12-08-2010, 03:29 PM
This can only end well.

http://gallery.dirtyhandschoppers.com/gallery/albums/Posters/this_will_not_end_well.sized.jpg

Lev Vyvanse
12-08-2010, 03:35 PM
I was thinking to myself, what should I say?
The truth, make something up, or just don't say anything.

Well, I'm going to go silent and see what everybody thinks up.

So, I'm curious was it the truth or did you make something up?

Jason in LA
12-09-2010, 09:31 PM
This has to be a joke. Please tell me it is. Damn, if it's true, yeah, I don't know how else to say this, but you're ****ed. I mean, royally ****ed. Damn, properly ****ed too!

Jason in LA
12-09-2010, 09:32 PM
Did some research and found at least one person that told McFoneco (BTW, nice time to change your name- FOneco now approves of it) something important...

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If only he listened Jason.

You can't tell anybody anything when they are in "love". Damn, how many lives is love going to ruin. ;D

colonelbeef
12-09-2010, 09:35 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

http://holycrapthatsfunny.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/doing_it_wrong_2.jpg

Jason in LA
12-09-2010, 09:48 PM
wow....im here eating a corndog in Newark, NJ, watching Japanese Anime Porn and missing my ex girlfriend...decided to log on here for a moment

thank God I did....this makes me feel a lot better about myself

this update can't be true

Damn, that's so true. I guess anybody having a bad day can just read this thread.

theAPAOps5
12-09-2010, 09:50 PM
OH.MY.JESUS

Wow I can't believe I just read that and that someone posted that on the internet.

broncosteven
12-09-2010, 10:22 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

That is nothing, my work takes me all over the globe, places like Pyongyang, Saudi Arabia, Iran, Afganistan, China.

So anyway the other day I decided to take some time off for Hanukkah and flew to NY to get a nice pastrami samitch. Everything went well and I was heading from NY to LA so I get to airport and get in the security line. So I am standing there listening to my ipod and playing a game on my iPhone and had my iMac in it's case over my shoulder and some dude walks up to me and asks him if I could help him out. He was really shookup and distraught so I felt bad for him, he said his son was sick and he needed to get this briefcase to him in LA but the guy didn't have the money to fly to LA and give it to him. He saw all my cool Apple stuff and knew I was an honorable American and he could trust me because I had so much expendable income. The poor guy was sweating so much and so nervous that his son was not going to his briefcase I told the guy I would take it to him.

So a few minutes later I get to the security guy and he asks me if anyone gave me anything to take aboard and I told him yes, and showed him the carry on. Next thing I know I am grabbing my ankles while they shine flashlights where the sun don't shine. I will tell you I was glad I broke out the new pair of BVD's! Then the next, I know these guys are asking all sorts of questions, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, this went on for a day or 2, it was hard to tell exactly how long because they took my iPhone 4.

Anywhooooo they got all frustrated and they bring in some guy from the FBI to help me they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, you get the picture.

By this time some Homeland security guy is asking about my attendance at this Florida flight school, I told him I always wanted to learn to fly but this place was just passing guys if you paid enough money so I left early after we did the simulator, I always wanted to go in a real flight sim and had spent so much money. This went on for awhile....

I kept answering their questions so they brought in the package the poor guy gave me in the security line and half of it was full of a white powdery substance and the other half was full of pipe's and play dough and nails and odd metal parts.

To make a long story short I am now on some kind of no fly list, my wife is preggo about to have my 1st kid in the Elvis chappel in Vegas and I need to rent a car to drive there before she pops! I got to go, my iPhone battery is low.

Jason in LA
12-09-2010, 10:29 PM
That is nothing, my work takes me all over the globe, places like Pyongyang, Saudi Arabia, Iran, Afganistan, China.

So anyway the other day I decided to take some time off for Hanukkah and flew to NY to get a nice pastrami samitch. Everything went well and I was heading from NY to LA so I get to airport and get in the security line. So I am standing there listening to my ipod and playing a game on my iPhone and had my iMac in it's case over my shoulder and some dude walks up to me and asks him if I could help him out. He was really shookup and distraught so I felt bad for him, he said his son was sick and he needed to get this briefcase to him in LA but the guy didn't have the money to fly to LA and give it to him. He saw all my cool Apple stuff and knew I was an honorable American and he could trust me because I had so much expendable income. The poor guy was sweating so much and so nervous that his son was not going to his briefcase I told the guy I would take it to him.

So a few minutes later I get to the security guy and he asks me if anyone gave me anything to take aboard and I told him yes, and showed him the carry on. Next thing I know I am grabbing my ankles while they shine flashlights where the sun don't shine. I will tell you I was glad I broke out the new pair of BVD's! Then the next, I know these guys are asking all sorts of questions, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, this went on for a day or 2, it was hard to tell exactly how long because they took my iPhone 4.

Anywhooooo they got all frustrated and they bring in some guy from the FBI to help me they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, you get the picture.

By this time some Homeland security guy is asking about my attendance at this Florida flight school, I told him I always wanted to learn to fly but this place was just passing guys if you paid enough money so I left early after we did the simulator, I always wanted to go in a real flight sim and had spent so much money. This went on for awhile....

I kept answering their questions so they brought in the package the poor guy gave me in the security line and half of it was full of a white powdery substance and the other half was full of pipe's and play dough and nails and odd metal parts.

To make a long story short I am now on some kind of no fly list, my wife is preggo about to have my 1st kid in the Elvis chappel in Vegas and I need to rent a car to drive there before she pops! I got to go, my iPhone battery is low.

Man that's funny. lol

BroncoBuff
12-09-2010, 11:55 PM
That is nothing, my work takes me all over the globe, places like Pyongyang, Saudi Arabia, Iran, Afganistan, China.

So anyway the other day I decided to take some time off for Hanukkah and flew to NY to get a nice pastrami samitch. Everything went well and I was heading from NY to LA so I get to airport and get in the security line. So I am standing there listening to my ipod and playing a game on my iPhone and had my iMac in it's case over my shoulder and some dude walks up to me and asks him if I could help him out. He was really shookup and distraught so I felt bad for him, he said his son was sick and he needed to get this briefcase to him in LA but the guy didn't have the money to fly to LA and give it to him. He saw all my cool Apple stuff and knew I was an honorable American and he could trust me because I had so much expendable income. The poor guy was sweating so much and so nervous that his son was not going to his briefcase I told the guy I would take it to him.

So a few minutes later I get to the security guy and he asks me if anyone gave me anything to take aboard and I told him yes, and showed him the carry on. Next thing I know I am grabbing my ankles while they shine flashlights where the sun don't shine. I will tell you I was glad I broke out the new pair of BVD's! Then the next, I know these guys are asking all sorts of questions, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, this went on for a day or 2, it was hard to tell exactly how long because they took my iPhone 4.

Anywhooooo they got all frustrated and they bring in some guy from the FBI to help me they asked the same questions again, I told them the story again, they asked the same questions again, you get the picture.

By this time some Homeland security guy is asking about my attendance at this Florida flight school, I told him I always wanted to learn to fly but this place was just passing guys if you paid enough money so I left early after we did the simulator, I always wanted to go in a real flight sim and had spent so much money. This went on for awhile....

I kept answering their questions so they brought in the package the poor guy gave me in the security line and half of it was full of a white powdery substance and the other half was full of pipe's and play dough and nails and odd metal parts.

To make a long story short I am now on some kind of no fly list, my wife is preggo about to have my 1st kid in the Elvis chappel in Vegas and I need to rent a car to drive there before she pops! I got to go, my iPhone battery is low.

Freaking hilarious! ROFL!

Something seemed odd to me at the blue ... but didn't get it until the red :~ohyah!:

Vegas_Bronco
12-10-2010, 01:43 AM
http://images.off-roadweb.com/freestuff/0803or_z+motivational_posters+parenting.jpg

ol#7
12-10-2010, 02:16 AM
Thought this was legit until the OP came back with that update.

Jason in LA
12-10-2010, 08:08 AM
Thought this was legit until the OP came back with that update.

I'd say that the original post and drama that followed was legit, but the update, yeah, that's questionable.

broncosteven
12-10-2010, 09:43 AM
Freaking hilarious! ROFL!

Something seemed odd to me at the blue ... but didn't get it until the red :~ohyah!:

LOL

So Pyongyang in North Korea didn't throw up a red flag?

TotallyScrewed
12-10-2010, 10:13 AM
LOL

So Pyongyang in North Korea didn't throw up a red flag?

I knew what was up at "That's nothing"...I watch and listened to far too much Monty Python.

That's nothing...We had to lick the road clean with our tongues and our dad used to cut us in half with a bread knife every night before bed...

broncosteven
12-10-2010, 10:16 AM
I knew what was up at "That's nothing"...I watch and listened to far too much Monty Python.

That's nothing...We had to lick the road clean with our tongues and our dad used to cut us in half with a bread knife every night before bed...

It must have been subliminal from the Python I recorded off IFC (I think)!

LOL

SportinOne
12-10-2010, 04:19 PM
good lord... seems like the OP is a little frustrated with all of us. the picture he posted that said something to the effect of "an update is coming" should have been our first clue that this is completely false. it's like he sat down after work one day, and after making dinner, and painting HER nails, and whatever other chores she has him doing, decided to write an EPIC response to get us all riled up. But he couldn't do it all in one sitting... this was just too crucial to fire off on a whim. He thought about this for days. The picture was probably at the halfway point of his production process.

I'm starting to wonder something and i probably could figure it out by going back to page one but i've already relived the entire 16 pages of this so i will just say it:

Where is your father in all of this?

I think he was either absent from the start, or just extremely complacent in his duty.

either way, can we finally get some god damned pictures of her?

gyldenlove
12-10-2010, 04:33 PM
LOL

So Pyongyang in North Korea didn't throw up a red flag?

We all know you is a commie!

Brewer
12-10-2010, 04:46 PM
Where is your father in all of this?

I think he was either absent from the start, or just extremely complacent in his duty.



Wherever he is, well, he should have pulled out... Hilarious!

SportinOne
12-10-2010, 05:40 PM
Wherever he is, well, he should have pulled out... Hilarious!

:strong:

24champ
05-19-2011, 11:39 AM
Bump.


Some Myrtle Beach news for those of you looking to move there with your significant other...Hilarious!

A Myrtle Beach woman was arrested for criminal domestic violence after a fight with a man during the weekend, according to a police report.

Audrey Ann Rodriguez, 62, was charged with criminal domestic violence of a high and aggravated nature after police were called at 2:47 p.m. Saturday to 101 Flagg St., police said.

A 53-year-old man told police Rodriguez hit him in the face, which caused a cut to the right side of his face, and pulled out part of his hair, according to the report. Rodriguez told officers it was a mutual fight, but police noted she was noted she did not have any injuries and found she was the aggressor.
Myrtle Beach woman charged with criminal domestic violence
Audrey Ann Rodriguez

Officers noted that during a criminal records check Rodriguez had three or more prior convictions for criminal domestic violence during the last 10 years, according to the report.

Read more: http://www.thesunnews.com/2011/02/28/2009141/myrtle-beach-woman-charged-with.html#ixzz1MouxWNQ8




Woman arrested for unlawful conduct toward a child after fire

MYRTLE BEACH, SC (WMBF) A woman was arrested after witnesses pulled four children from her smoking home as she laid unresponsive on her front porch, a bottle of tequila found nearby.

Best part of the story...

The officer stated the Myrtle Beach Fire Department said the fire began in the kitchen's oven from a cardboard pizza box.

http://www.wmbfnews.com/story/14653245/pizza-box-sparks-fire-woman-arrested-for-disorderly-conduct




Myrtle Beach Police officers arrested Jackie Renee Holmberg, 20, of Loris, after responding to a report of a fight on the boardwalk near Sixth Avenue North about 4 Sunday morning.

Witnesses said Holmberg hit the man, her domestic partner.

The officers rode up on their bikes and heard Holmberg yelling at the man. The couple began walking away, but were stopped.

Holmberg was charged with criminal domestic violence and taken to the Myrtle Beach Jail.

Read more: http://www.thesunnews.com/2011/05/16/2160536/in-our-towns.html#ixzz1Mow1SJ7k





Myrtle Beach police arrest woman for stabbing husband
MIRANDA LEDESANA

Credit: Myrtle Beach Police Dept.

By Continuous News Desk Staff


MYRTLE BEACH Myrtle Beach police arrested a woman Thursday night after they say she stabbed her husband with a knife.

According to a police incident report, officers responded to an apartment at 2005 Greens Boulevard, which is in the Quail Marsh complex, about 8:30 p.m. When they arrived, they found a man bleeding from the back of his neck.


http://www2.scnow.com/news/2010/dec/31/myrtle-beach-police-arrest-woman-stabbing-husband-ar-1285770/

Beantown Bronco
05-19-2011, 11:46 AM
The gift that keeps on giving.

vancejohnson82
05-19-2011, 11:51 AM
great bump

Rohirrim
05-19-2011, 01:11 PM
One of my favorite threads of all time. Whatever happened... btw?


My favorite part is where he shows her the thread. :rofl:

broncosteven
05-19-2011, 01:45 PM
I make a thousand dollars a night can any of you dr phills say that?

I wonder how much she tells her pimp she brings in a night?

LOL

L.A. BRONCOS FAN
05-19-2011, 01:50 PM
No brainer, imo.

"She hasn't had a job because she continues to get hired at a place and either not like it"

"Also, she has a 4 year old daughter, so makes it tougher."

"Now, I don't want to get in too many details, but she had a terrible childhood that caused her to have to drop out of high school"

Three key sentences. I'm sure she had rough circumstances as you said, but now she has a 4 year old and apparently lacks the responsibility to even put a solid effort into independently taking care of her child. You can try and blow that off as another reason to where she feels comfortable moving, but uprooting your own life (which it sounds like you have YOUR **** together, albeit probably a little blinded by emotion) on a chance she matures is absurd.

Side note: Unrelated to the previous point, but something that sounds like it's true. You may be being used. A relationship should be based on mutual respect, not by being Captain Save-A-Ho. That may or may not pertain to you, but take a step back and a close look at who you are and the reality of your relationship before doing ANYTHING.

So much more goes into this... what are your families opinions? Is this relationship what caused stress between you and your family? Do you feel the relationship is healthy, or is moving an option partly because you think it will heal part of the relationship?

Gotta co-sign most of the above.

Make sure the big head and not the little head is making this kind of decision.

broncosteven
05-19-2011, 01:53 PM
I am discusted with the smug talkers here.

lol

broncosteven
05-19-2011, 01:54 PM
do you knoe what 20% of $5000 is?

Thinking hurts

broncosteven
05-19-2011, 01:55 PM
Some of the stupidest people I know are good spellers the only group more stupid are the ons that go around correctng the spelling of others like they have won something.

I never said who I was and never will. Not here that's for sure.

This is a school boy pile on place

I wonder if she was a mail order bride?

Beantown Bronco
05-19-2011, 01:58 PM
I wonder if she was a mail order bride?

Nice. One of the girls in my office is literally a Russian mail order bride and she's pretty open about it. No joke. She's around 23-25 yrs old and he's in his mid to late 40s.

worm
05-19-2011, 02:06 PM
Nice. One of the girls in my office is literally a Russian mail order bride and she's pretty open about it. No joke. She's around 23-25 yrs old and he's in his mid to late 40s.

Pics or its not true.

Hogan11
05-19-2011, 02:10 PM
Nice. One of the girls in my office is literally a Russian mail order bride and she's pretty open about it. No joke. She's around 23-25 yrs old and he's in his mid to late 40s.

I've been seeing a lot of this going on with Phillippino women lately around my area...it's like Little Manilla here now, no joke.

DHallblows
05-19-2011, 02:10 PM
Pics or its not true.

Fact

HILife
05-19-2011, 03:11 PM
Oh wow! The thread is back. Welcome back!

Blueflame
05-21-2011, 04:08 PM
Yet another reason to visit Myrtle Beach...

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43112192/ns/travel-destination_travel/

Tombstone RJ
05-21-2011, 07:21 PM
Isn't Yertle the Turtle from Myrtle Beach...

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Tombstone RJ
05-21-2011, 08:17 PM
fuggem just to see the look on their face, I fuggem just to see the look on their face...

Tombstone RJ
05-21-2011, 08:24 PM
yes more from Freaky Styley... the greatest RHCP's album evah!!

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NYBronc
05-22-2011, 07:53 PM
I saw them in Chicago at the Cabaret Metro not long after that album came out. They ended the show with nothing on but socks strategically placed. Encore was "Secret Special Love Song" and one of their groupies got on stage and stripped bare. Best concert ever.

Willynowei
05-22-2011, 09:41 PM
The issues are not solely on her. There were bad things said by my mom to my brother's wife, and my family likes to think themselves up and be elitist. My fiance' comes from a poor upbringing, that barely scraps by and basically, my family thinks she isn't good enough for me. I love her, and hate the attitude of my family. Heck, my brother flat out told me not to put my fiance's daughter in the daycare he uses for his kids, with the hint that it would "corrupt" them.

This is the reason why I posted this, because I wanted thoughts on people who I know would give different opinions based on the ones I've heard already.

She was adopted by the way, and her "mom" was 50 years old when she got her and died when she was 15, and her mom left her with basically everything. Well, she had step-siblings who were twice her age, and hated her. Needless to say, a 15 year old can't get inheritance until 18 I believe, and her siblings took her in, got what they wanted from her, and kicked her to the curb and forced her to drop out. That is what happened.

Also, we have no means of taking a week off, and flying there to spend a week, we simply don't have the money to do so. We would have enough to get there, and get set up with a roommate friend(female) and get to work.

Not to sound like an insensitive a-hole (hint: i'm going to sound like one), but your family is right (minus the part about her kid corrupting others, thats weird).

The beautiful thing that separates chicks from mothers is that you can change who you end up with. Don't be captain hero here dude, if I was a family member or a close friend I'd tell you she wasn't good enough for you just based on 3 things:

1.) As Rev said, even though she has a kid, she isn't responsible enough to work a job because she doesn't like/she hates it,"
2.) She had a bad childhood
3.) You are an accounting major with a job, while she is 22 without a GED

She could be the nicest person in the world, but 1) illustrates she's irresponsible, 2) indicates that shes going to have problems that may or may not haunt your relationship forever, 3) indicates a separation in your education and socio-economic levels that usually means you'll end up a part anyways, most likely.

Taken together you sound almost apologetic in your posts, like you want to "fix" her. Don't ever fix a chick, its not worth it, drop em and find a better one, you don't owe it to her as a nice guy to deal with **** from a ****ed up childhood.

Also, I wouldn't go for that promise on you getting a job, especially from someone who can't or won't get one themselves. Cherish the fact that you are holding up well for someone your age in this economy.

But honestly the fact that you've blasted your F&F on a message board to random people, I get the sense you already have your mind and are going to listen to the "follow your heart" crowd. If you even consider it, ask yourself a simple question - is she the most amazing person I will ever meet in my life? If you flinch, don't do it, good luck, don't **** your life up.

EDIT:

I just read through the later posts following the first page, holy ****ING **** man. good luck is all i gotta say.

TheChamp24
05-23-2011, 03:07 PM
Where is your father in all of this?

I think he was either absent from the start, or just extremely complacent in his duty.

either way, can we finally get some god damned pictures of her?

Just saw this and go to hell and die.

Make fun of me, but I'll be damned if you insult my father who has always been there for me and helped me when I needed it growing up.

UberBroncoMan
05-23-2011, 03:11 PM
The only questions on my mind are; did the move actually take place, and are they still together?

Ambiguous
05-23-2011, 03:51 PM
Not to sound like an insensitive a-hole (hint: i'm going to sound like one), but your family is right (minus the part about her kid corrupting others, thats weird).

The beautiful thing that separates chicks from mothers is that you can change who you end up with. Don't be captain hero here dude, if I was a family member or a close friend I'd tell you she wasn't good enough for you just based on 3 things:

1.) As Rev said, even though she has a kid, she isn't responsible enough to work a job because she doesn't like/she hates it,"
2.) She had a bad childhood
3.) You are an accounting major with a job, while she is 22 without a GED

She could be the nicest person in the world, but 1) illustrates she's irresponsible, 2) indicates that shes going to have problems that may or may not haunt your relationship forever, 3) indicates a separation in your education and socio-economic levels that usually means you'll end up a part anyways, most likely.

Taken together you sound almost apologetic in your posts, like you want to "fix" her. Don't ever fix a chick, its not worth it, drop em and find a better one, you don't owe it to her as a nice guy to deal with **** from a ****ed up childhood.

Also, I wouldn't go for that promise on you getting a job, especially from someone who can't or won't get one themselves. Cherish the fact that you are holding up well for someone your age in this economy.

But honestly the fact that you've blasted your F&F on a message board to random people, I get the sense you already have your mind and are going to listen to the "follow your heart" crowd. If you even consider it, ask yourself a simple question - is she the most amazing person I will ever meet in my life? If you flinch, don't do it, good luck, don't **** your life up.

EDIT:

I just read through the later posts following the first page, holy ****ING **** man. good luck is all i gotta say.

Read through pages 1/2, and this last page. Sounds like his mind is made up, but this post is 100% spot on.

broncocalijohn
05-23-2011, 03:57 PM
Just saw this and go to hell and die.

Make fun of me, but I'll be damned if you insult my father who has always been there for me and helped me when I needed it growing up.

Hey, we all thought this so dont single him out. Your Dad probably punches himself in the face every night before bed and asking himself where did he go wrong. Where is the update McFoneco? You can change your name but you are still the Myrtle Beach Man (or is it boy?).

oubronco
05-23-2011, 04:04 PM
http://www.popcrunch.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/As-The-World-Turns-499x381.jpg
http://images.tvrage.com/shows/4/3256.jpg

TheChamp24
05-23-2011, 05:01 PM
Hey, we all thought this so dont single him out. Your Dad probably punches himself in the face every night before bed and asking himself where did he go wrong. Where is the update McFoneco? You can change your name but you are still the Myrtle Beach Man (or is it boy?).

I want no talks of my family. Zero. Make fun of me, but stop it when you start to talk crap about my family.
Pretty sure Taco made a point not to start talking crap about family.

And I changed my name to not be associated with the atrocity that was the coach that shall not be named.

Ambiguous
05-23-2011, 05:26 PM
I want no talks of my family. Zero. Make fun of me, but stop it when you start to talk crap about my family.
Pretty sure Taco made a point not to start talking crap about family.

And I changed my name to not be associated with the atrocity that was the coach that shall not be named.

My Dad anonymously browses the Mane too. He get's totally offended when some random person from the internets judges him.

Que
05-24-2011, 12:59 PM
So dude, I have to ask. Were you trying to get pregnant or did it happen accidentally?

If on purpose: Why in the world did you think that was a good idea? It didn't sound like you were on the most secure of footing to begin with and making a baby only makes things 10X harder and is more likely to pull a couple apart.

If on accident: Um, did you miss the whole cause and effect of things? Not to brag here but based on my prior experience with Mrs. Que, my sperm is potent enough to knock up half the world if not properly controlled. Prior to Mrs. Que, I also did my fair share of slaying just about every XX chromosome that wandered into my line of sight. Never once did I knock a woman up. Never. Not once.

Sorry to be like this but you're pretty hopeless. You had all the warning signs that this was a bad idea, you asked for our advice and we repeatedly highlighted why this was a bad idea. Then you did it anyway. Made a bad situation worse then got into this CPS mess. Um, McFoneco, is anyone there??? Hello?

Also, based on your characterization of her daughter, you are not fit to be a parent. You view her as an interloper and a liar. It is not your place to come between a mother and her child. You come fourth now in her life - or at least you should if she's at all fit to be a mother. It goes:

1a. Her daughter
1b. Your child
3. Her
4. You

Got that? That's how it should be for you too if you are going to be a man and own this situation you got yourself into. You are a #4 priority. Everyone else comes first.

DemonEagles
05-24-2011, 04:54 PM
I don't think you understand how much people change from 25 to 30 people grow up. Do what you want, but it sounds like you are scared of losing the girl. Don't be scurred be a man, provide and either that girl will stick by your side or another one will. Remember, you are young and you don't have aids. Girls will find you.

DHallblows
05-24-2011, 05:11 PM
I don't think you understand how much people change from 25 to 30 people grow up. Do what you want, but it sounds like you are scared of losing the girl. Don't be scurred be a man, provide and either that girl will stick by your side or another one will. Remember, you are young and you don't have aids. Girls will find you.

Could you please to explain this to us in the form of a Microsoft Paint drawing?

Cleo McDowell
05-24-2011, 08:14 PM
Could you please to explain this to us in the form of a Microsoft Paint drawing?

I second this request.

theStifmeister
05-24-2011, 08:27 PM
drop her like a bad flavor of kool aid

Goobzilla
05-24-2011, 09:22 PM
Could you please to explain this to us in the form of a Microsoft Paint drawing?

This :strong:

gunns
05-24-2011, 09:41 PM
Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

I knew this was fake when I read the bolded part. NO WAY

RhymesayersDU
05-24-2011, 10:00 PM
Where is your father in all of this?

I think he was either absent from the start, or just extremely complacent in his duty.

either way, can we finally get some god damned pictures of her?

Seriously, my Dad would kill me before he let me ruin my life. And he'd be right to do it.

Doggcow
05-24-2011, 10:29 PM
Seriously, my Dad would kill me before he let me ruin my life. And he'd be right to do it.

I almost chased a girl once.

Love you dad.

DemonEagles
05-25-2011, 06:18 AM
ask and recieve

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 09:46 AM
I'm wondering if I should add some excitement to the OMane today and give everybody some updates.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 09:54 AM
Anyone that says "no, you shouldn't update us" should be killed.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 09:55 AM
I'm wondering if I should add some excitement to the OMane today and give everybody some updates.

let the magic begin...

ghwk
06-06-2012, 09:57 AM
Hitting the refresh button continuously...

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:00 AM
there must be bath salts involved...

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 10:15 AM
So, for those that missed it, I had a baby girl back in August, http://www.orangemane.com/BB/showthread.php?t=99381
We were living decently near Sugar Land here in Texas, although the Mrs. was still not working after pregnancy, and decided it would be good to try bartending. She also had a few friends that wanted to start fresh, and I agreed they could come live with us, one female and one male. The female got to us in October, we moved into a new place in November, and the male came aboard in December.


I think people may know where this is going...

baja
06-06-2012, 10:16 AM
did you fine shiit in the attic?

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 10:18 AM
Counting down to Rev's "I told you so" post.

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:21 AM
damn....new baby and bringing more people into the household??

Good luck bro! (no sarcasm)

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 10:22 AM
So in December, I'm trying to help this guy get work at the manufacturing company I work at. No go.
Christmas comes, it was a good Christmas for me, my family came over, we all got along, it was fun. Then, around 4-5 when my family starts to leave, the Mrs. pulls me aside and says that Kyle, the new guy, is homesick and sad, and she's going to go take him to the bar.
A few hours pass by, she comes home drunk, I'm upset that she went drinking on Christmas with some other guy. She thought I was being too controlling of her.
Next day, we have some gift cards/XMas money, I wanted to go shopping. She doesn't wake up til about 3 in the afternoon. I again stress that this is a family time, we should be having fun as a family. She thinks I'm overreacting and being controlling.


Fast forward to December 30th, when she pulls me aside, and says I'm changing, and she doesn't like the man I'm changing into, and we should break up, she needs some time to think, take a break, etc.

Well, 2 days later, I confront her about her sleeping with Kyle, and she admits to doing it that day(the 1st). I'm not a happy camper, and almost threw him out of the house. Looking back, probably should have, but the now former Mrs. threatened to leave, with the kids, with him. I just was overwhelmed and didn't know what to do at the time.

BroncoBuff
06-06-2012, 10:23 AM
OH

MY

GOD.


One of these new Super-Mods should prove themselves to Taco John by giving you a vacation, son. Taco is usually impressed by the one that get there first, might even be a promotion in it for him.

baja
06-06-2012, 10:25 AM
Damn that's rough

On the "almost threw him out of the house". Why did you not?

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:25 AM
Damn......

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:26 AM
Damn that's rough

On the "almost threw him out of the house". Why did you not?

for real....Kyle would've been sleeping underneath a bridge with his front teeth knocked out, pronto

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 10:26 AM
So, to all those folks who in the first few pages of this thread said some variation of "follow your heart, not much to lose, etc".......what say you now?

ghwk
06-06-2012, 10:26 AM
So when does porn and a stripper pole get involved here?

Sorry to hear it dude.

JLesSPE
06-06-2012, 10:27 AM
I would've thrown both of 'em out and said good luck taking my kids.

WolfpackGuy
06-06-2012, 10:27 AM
So what happened to the people that moved in?

Can this be merged with the gun thread?

Irish Stout
06-06-2012, 10:27 AM
So in December, I'm trying to help this guy get work at the manufacturing company I work at. No go.
Christmas comes, it was a good Christmas for me, my family came over, we all got along, it was fun. Then, around 4-5 when my family starts to leave, the Mrs. pulls me aside and says that Kyle, the new guy, is homesick and sad, and she's going to go take him to the bar.
A few hours pass by, she comes home drunk, I'm upset that she went drinking on Christmas with some other guy. She thought I was being too controlling of her.
Next day, we have some gift cards/XMas money, I wanted to go shopping. She doesn't wake up til about 3 in the afternoon. I again stress that this is a family time, we should be having fun as a family. She thinks I'm overreacting and being controlling.


Fast forward to December 30th, when she pulls me aside, and says I'm changing, and she doesn't like the man I'm changing into, and we should break up, she needs some time to think, take a break, etc.

Well, 2 days later, I confront her about her sleeping with Kyle, and she admits to doing it that day(the 1st). I'm not a happy camper, and almost threw him out of the house. Looking back, probably should have, but the now former Mrs. threatened to leave, with the kids, with him. I just was overwhelmed and didn't know what to do at the time.

Dude.... If true ( I could see you just wanting to mind **** the Omane community), then I am incredibly sorry. I hope you've talked to a family law attorney. You want to keep the connection to the kid and possibly argue for full custody rights until skank has a stable job and place to live.

RhymesayersDU
06-06-2012, 10:28 AM
If this is real, you deserve every bit of this.

You're dumb.

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 10:28 AM
Counting down to Rev's "I told you so" post.

Sadly if I did that every time I was right, I wouldn't have the time to continue being right all the time.

It's a paradox

BroncoBuff
06-06-2012, 10:28 AM
No, snap out of it!!!!

Hold strong guys ... don't let him drag you under.

baja
06-06-2012, 10:29 AM
So, to all those folks who in the first few pages of this thread said some variation of "follow your heart, not much to lose, etc".......what say you now?

I would say always follow your heart

Nothing worse than a life un-lived.

If you live to avoid the pain you often will miss the joy.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 10:32 AM
I would say always follow your heart

Nothing worse than a life un-lived.

If you live to avoid the pain you often will miss the joy.

Following your heart is one thing. Doing what he was doing was something else. There was no real love if you really read the first few pages of the thread.

The words he used were pretty telling. He was following the other head, not the heart IMO.

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 10:38 AM
I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

Well, I talked with the landlord, and found a loophole in the lease agreement. Kyle wasn't on the lease, and the lease states guests can not stay longer than 15 days without written permission from the landlord. I tell my landlord I want him gone, so he writes up a letter saying this guest needs to pay extra money or leave within 3 days. Well, upon giving this letter to the former Mrs. and Kyle, the genius decides the best course of action is assaulting me, in front of both kids(one 6 by the way). He started to punch me, knocked me on the ground, then pounded my head against the wall before letting up, at which point I ran to grab the nearest working phone, the former Mrs. phone, and she gets livid, threatening to break my computer if I call the police. Whatever, I dial, she throws my computer on the ground, and then packs up her car she bought with her tax money with Kyle. Police came, I told them they just left, and what happened was he ended up getting arrested with a charge of family violence, and I had an emergency protective order put on him. Should of added my child to it.

Anyways, the former Mrs. isn't too happy, but talks with me about trying things with me again. I'm thinking about the kids, and wondering what she might be up to. Kyle's bailed out by his mom on the premise he return to, you guessed it, Myrtle Beach. She also tried to bribe me to drop the charges. He stays in a hotel room, and finally the former Mrs. actions come to fruition as she takes the children to the hotel room, and says "I'm not safe to be around anymore".

Well, this was on a Sunday, so next day I hire a lawyer to fight for custody of my child. The guy's arraignment is set for the following Thursday, at which point he would plead guilty and they would leave for Myrtle Beach, so I had to get her served ASAP.

Also, to point out here, she threatened if I tried to fight for custody, she would win, so there would be no point.

Well, she gets served on Thursday when she's picking up Kyle from his arraignment in which he pleaded guilty, and was CONVICTED of Family Violence.
An hour later, I get a phone call from the former Mrs. stating if I want my child, to meet her at a Wal Mart parking lot. I agree, go there, and she hands me the child, while forcing me to sign a quick hand written paper saying she relinquishes her rights to the child, and I agree to drop the suit against her.

I contacted my lawyer, told him about the document, which 2 copies were signed, one for me, one for her. He said that doesn't mean squat, you singed it under durress(she threatened if I didn't sign it, she would leave that day to Myrtle Beach with the child), and advised me to continue the suit.

Well, I now had custody of the child, and continuing the suit, and at this point I moved in with my mother as I needed a place to stay, cheap, with the baby. Me and the lawyer waited to see if the former Mrs. filed a response, and she didn't, which means she defaulted, which means I got to present my case to the judge by myself.

In April, I was awarded custody of my daughter, with exclusive rights to her, while the mother is actually due to pay child support, of which I doubt I see a dime of.

In fact, in her haste to leave Texas, she never registered and changed the title of her car from when she bought it, and left the title. Why is this important? Because she was more concerned asking me to mail her the title than asking if her daughter started walking yet.

I ignore communication with the mother, and continue to post updates on the website I was court ordered to use.

Moral to the story:
Everything happens for a reason(I have a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing daughter)
Don't ever, ever, ever seek long term relationships with a crazy woman

baja
06-06-2012, 10:40 AM
Following your heart is one thing. Doing what he was doing was something else. There was no real love if you really read the first few pages of the thread.

The words he used were pretty telling. He was following the other head, not the heart IMO.

None the less it was HIS decision to make. He had the experience he needed to grow. Life is not without pain.

I can think of nothing worse than being at the end of your life regretting the things you did not do.

It was easy for us all to see this might not end well for him but it was something he needed to do. Good things often come out of emotional pain. Wisdom for one.

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 10:43 AM
I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

And stopped reading.

You really let this dude live with you for over a MONTH after he ****ed your wife?!?!?! Hilarious!

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:44 AM
this can't be true....

if it is, the "meet me at Wal-Mart to get your kid" has to be one of the most absurdly, cliche trailer trash things I've ever heard someone come up with

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 10:46 AM
And stopped reading.

You really let this dude live with you for over a MONTH after he ****ed your wife?!?!?! Hilarious!

yea, there is no waaaayyy that can be true...

AND THE DUDE WASN"T PAYING UP ON HIS RENT!!?!?!

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 10:47 AM
So this should add about 10 pages to this thread.

And by the way, yes, all of that was true.

baja
06-06-2012, 10:47 AM
I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

Well, I talked with the landlord, and found a loophole in the lease agreement. Kyle wasn't on the lease, and the lease states guests can not stay longer than 15 days without written permission from the landlord. I tell my landlord I want him gone, so he writes up a letter saying this guest needs to pay extra money or leave within 3 days. Well, upon giving this letter to the former Mrs. and Kyle, the genius decides the best course of action is assaulting me, in front of both kids(one 6 by the way). He started to punch me, knocked me on the ground, then pounded my head against the wall before letting up, at which point I ran to grab the nearest working phone, the former Mrs. phone, and she gets livid, threatening to break my computer if I call the police. Whatever, I dial, she throws my computer on the ground, and then packs up her car she bought with her tax money with Kyle. Police came, I told them they just left, and what happened was he ended up getting arrested with a charge of family violence, and I had an emergency protective order put on him. Should of added my child to it.

Anyways, the former Mrs. isn't too happy, but talks with me about trying things with me again. I'm thinking about the kids, and wondering what she might be up to. Kyle's bailed out by his mom on the premise he return to, you guessed it, Myrtle Beach. She also tried to bribe me to drop the charges. He stays in a hotel room, and finally the former Mrs. actions come to fruition as she takes the children to the hotel room, and says "I'm not safe to be around anymore".

Well, this was on a Sunday, so next day I hire a lawyer to fight for custody of my child. The guy's arraignment is set for the following Thursday, at which point he would plead guilty and they would leave for Myrtle Beach, so I had to get her served ASAP.

Also, to point out here, she threatened if I tried to fight for custody, she would win, so there would be no point.

Well, she gets served on Thursday when she's picking up Kyle from his arraignment in which he pleaded guilty, and was CONVICTED of Family Violence.
An hour later, I get a phone call from the former Mrs. stating if I want my child, to meet her at a Wal Mart parking lot. I agree, go there, and she hands me the child, while forcing me to sign a quick hand written paper saying she relinquishes her rights to the child, and I agree to drop the suit against her.

I contacted my lawyer, told him about the document, which 2 copies were signed, one for me, one for her. He said that doesn't mean squat, you singed it under durress(she threatened if I didn't sign it, she would leave that day to Myrtle Beach with the child), and advised me to continue the suit.

Well, I now had custody of the child, and continuing the suit, and at this point I moved in with my mother as I needed a place to stay, cheap, with the baby. Me and the lawyer waited to see if the former Mrs. filed a response, and she didn't, which means she defaulted, which means I got to present my case to the judge by myself.

In April, I was awarded custody of my daughter, with exclusive rights to her, while the mother is actually due to pay child support, of which I doubt I see a dime of.

In fact, in her haste to leave Texas, she never registered and changed the title of her car from when she bought it, and left the title. Why is this important? Because she was more concerned asking me to mail her the title than asking if her daughter started walking yet.

I ignore communication with the mother, and continue to post updates on the website I was court ordered to use.

Moral to the story:
Everything happens for a reason(I have a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing daughter)
Don't ever, ever, ever seek long term relationships with a crazy woman

God works in mysterious ways.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 10:48 AM
None the less it was HIS decision to make. He had the experience he needed to grow. Life is not without pain.

I can think of nothing worse than being at the end of your life regretting the things you did not do.

It was easy for us all to see this might not end well for him but it was something he needed to do. Good things often come out of emotional pain. Wisdom for one.

And single parent households for two.

alkemical
06-06-2012, 10:52 AM
Such an interesting thread.

baja
06-06-2012, 10:52 AM
BTW Kyle did you a big favor.

A mother that would give up her child is not someone you want to partner up with. That is a far larger character defect than infidelity.

Not to mention a blessing for your daughter.

RhymesayersDU
06-06-2012, 10:54 AM
And single parent households for two.

No, this is the New World Order. Only 1 parent needed. Who needs Mom or Dad? Better yet, why not trade in Mom for 2 Dads or trade in Dad for 2 Moms? Huzzah! It's a parenting bonanza, everything must go!

baja
06-06-2012, 10:55 AM
And single parent households for two.

Being raised by a single parent that loves you is far better than having two parents where one of them could care less about you.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 10:57 AM
Being raised by a single parent that loves you is far better than having two parents where one of them could care less about you.

True, but there is also a better option.

baja
06-06-2012, 10:59 AM
True, but there is also a better option.

which is?

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 11:05 AM
which is?

Screw up your own life all you want, but don't have a kid with crazy. There are now two kids out there that don't have a chance IMO. Clearly, the kid she had with whomever before they met is doomed. And if half the stuff he posted here is true, his is as well.

oubronco
06-06-2012, 11:07 AM
And stopped reading.

You really let this dude live with you for over a MONTH after he ****ed your wife?!?!?! Hilarious!

He better be dialin up 1-800-Slap-A-Ho

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 11:11 AM
Screw up your own life all you want, but don't have a kid with crazy. There are now two kids out there that don't have a chance IMO. Clearly, the kid she had with whomever before they met is doomed. And if half the stuff he posted here is true, his is as well.

not sure if I agree that kids with one parent "have no chance." As a matter of fact, I would say about 50% of the friends I have come from one parent households and most are doing just fine. Of course its another thing entirely to deal with it personally, but functioning as a successful young adult/adult does not seem to be that difficult

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 11:14 AM
not sure if I agree that kids with one parent "have no chance."

That's not what I'm saying.

I'm saying that kids with only one parent, and that parent happens to be anyone mentioned in these stories, have no chance.

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 11:16 AM
That's not what I'm saying.

I'm saying that kids with only one parent, and that parent happens to be anyone mentioned in these stories, have no chance.

It will be most fun proving you wrong good sir.

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 11:17 AM
That's not what I'm saying.

I'm saying that kids with only one parent, and that parent happens to be anyone mentioned in these stories, have no chance.

oh for sure...the one thing I'll say about all of my friends parents (mothers for the most part) is that they are the most responsible, selfless people I know. It takes a lot to give up 18 or so years of your life to make sure another person is taken care of

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 11:18 AM
It will be most fun proving you wrong good sir.

Just like you showed Kyle who's boss, eh?

HighCountryBronco
06-06-2012, 11:51 AM
I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

Well, I talked with the landlord, and found a loophole in the lease agreement. Kyle wasn't on the lease, and the lease states guests can not stay longer than 15 days without written permission from the landlord. I tell my landlord I want him gone, so he writes up a letter saying this guest needs to pay extra money or leave within 3 days. Well, upon giving this letter to the former Mrs. and Kyle, the genius decides the best course of action is assaulting me, in front of both kids(one 6 by the way). He started to punch me, knocked me on the ground, then pounded my head against the wall before letting up, at which point I ran to grab the nearest working phone, the former Mrs. phone, and she gets livid, threatening to break my computer if I call the police. Whatever, I dial, she throws my computer on the ground, and then packs up her car she bought with her tax money with Kyle. Police came, I told them they just left, and what happened was he ended up getting arrested with a charge of family violence, and I had an emergency protective order put on him. Should of added my child to it.

Anyways, the former Mrs. isn't too happy, but talks with me about trying things with me again. I'm thinking about the kids, and wondering what she might be up to. Kyle's bailed out by his mom on the premise he return to, you guessed it, Myrtle Beach. She also tried to bribe me to drop the charges. He stays in a hotel room, and finally the former Mrs. actions come to fruition as she takes the children to the hotel room, and says "I'm not safe to be around anymore".

Well, this was on a Sunday, so next day I hire a lawyer to fight for custody of my child. The guy's arraignment is set for the following Thursday, at which point he would plead guilty and they would leave for Myrtle Beach, so I had to get her served ASAP.

Also, to point out here, she threatened if I tried to fight for custody, she would win, so there would be no point.

Well, she gets served on Thursday when she's picking up Kyle from his arraignment in which he pleaded guilty, and was CONVICTED of Family Violence.
An hour later, I get a phone call from the former Mrs. stating if I want my child, to meet her at a Wal Mart parking lot. I agree, go there, and she hands me the child, while forcing me to sign a quick hand written paper saying she relinquishes her rights to the child, and I agree to drop the suit against her.

I contacted my lawyer, told him about the document, which 2 copies were signed, one for me, one for her. He said that doesn't mean squat, you singed it under durress(she threatened if I didn't sign it, she would leave that day to Myrtle Beach with the child), and advised me to continue the suit.

Well, I now had custody of the child, and continuing the suit, and at this point I moved in with my mother as I needed a place to stay, cheap, with the baby. Me and the lawyer waited to see if the former Mrs. filed a response, and she didn't, which means she defaulted, which means I got to present my case to the judge by myself.

In April, I was awarded custody of my daughter, with exclusive rights to her, while the mother is actually due to pay child support, of which I doubt I see a dime of.

In fact, in her haste to leave Texas, she never registered and changed the title of her car from when she bought it, and left the title. Why is this important? Because she was more concerned asking me to mail her the title than asking if her daughter started walking yet.

I ignore communication with the mother, and continue to post updates on the website I was court ordered to use.

Moral to the story:
Everything happens for a reason(I have a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing daughter)
Don't ever, ever, ever seek long term relationships with a crazy woman

I am glad it all worked out for you in the end.

baja
06-06-2012, 11:54 AM
Screw up your own life all you want, but don't have a kid with crazy. There are now two kids out there that don't have a chance IMO. Clearly, the kid she had with whomever before they met is doomed. And if half the stuff he posted here is true, his is as well.

That is am uninformed opinion if ever I heard one. Many many people have overcome much worse. You have no idea what this childs life will be like. Sounds like the father and his parents will be raising the child in what sounds like a stable and loving home.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 12:00 PM
That is am uninformed opinion if ever I heard one.
.

It's informed. I have looked at the statistics.


Many many people have overcome much worse. .

Yup. No doubt. And Steve Young had a HOF career. What are the odds Tebow replicates that, because, they started out on somewhat similar paths.

You have no idea what this childs life will be like.

The OP has given us a pretty good idea of what it's been like so far.

Sounds like the father and his parents will be raising the child in what sounds like a stable and loving home.

If you ignore his own words. He admitted to having such problems with his parents that he considered moving across the country with a crazy woman just to get away from them. He admitted it wasn't stable. In this entire thread, there is nothing to conclude that it's a loving home. Maybe it is. But there's been zero evidence of that. All it's filled with is bad decision after bad decision.

He also admitted to hating where he lives.

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 12:03 PM
All it's filled with is bad decision after bad decision.

No emphasis on him getting his ass beat down in front of his kid by the guy who ****ed her mom and that she's running off with?

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 12:08 PM
No emphasis on him getting his ass beat down in front of his kid by the guy who ****ed her mom and that she's running off with?

Or this gem from Dec 2010, which I completely forgot about:

Well, I'm back in Texas, have been since September. I need some help though, a lot of stuff is going on that is complete BS.
First, we moved in with my mom, and she's been okay, not great, but okay. She wanted us to move in with her anyways.
Second, my future step-daughter ended up going to daycare in October, and one week, due to her attacking her canopy bed(plastic/metal poles), she wound up with a blackeye, and at some point at daycare/school, she fell on her genital area and got a bruise there. Well, the daycare ends up calling us in and talking about it, thinking we're abusing her. We get a note from a doctor saying everything is fine, and that everything seemed accidental, and we go back to the daycare tell them and take her out of there.
Go forward to now, and apparently they called Child Protective Services, we got a letter from them on Friday and my fiancee' and daughter had to go meet with someone yesterday. They each had a solo interview, and remember my daughter is 4 years old her, and told them that she threw up and that I hit her in the face and threw her against the wall and hit her head against the wall, all of which is completely false. And then she told them she's scared of me, which is false as well.
Well, due to that, they are forcing my fiancee', who by the way is now pregnant, and my daughter to move out away from me due to me being "dangerous".
Its freakin BS, and I'm sitting here wondering when I can see the person I love so much again, wonder if I'll be able to see my child's birth, just a bunch of crap due to taking in what a 4 year old says, who said stuff to get daddy in trouble and now look where we are. Freakin unbelievable.

HILife
06-06-2012, 12:10 PM
WOW! Crazy. Wish the best for you and your daughter in the future.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 12:15 PM
I am glad it all worked out for you in the end.

Thread starts: 25 years old, single but engaged, good job, living on his own.

Thread ends: 27 years old, single after fiancee cheats on him with live in roommate, same job?, living with his parents with a baby that mommy wants no part of, in middle of custody battle and other potential litigation as a result of getting beat up in front of said kid by the live in......and he also now has a record with Child Protective Services courtesy of his step daughter at the time.

And yet someone thinks "it all worked out for him"........only on the Mane.

55CrushEm
06-06-2012, 12:16 PM
Just like you showed Kyle who's boss, eh?

Yeah. That was the sad/pathetic part of the story.

1. Kyle bangs wife of Champ.

2. Champ continues to allow Kyle to live with them....
...while NOT paying rent.

3. Kyle then beats up Champ (not the other way around as it SHOULD have been from the moment infidelity was discovered).

4. Instead of running for baseball bat or gun, Champ runs for phone.

55CrushEm
06-06-2012, 12:18 PM
No emphasis on him getting his ass beat down in front of his kid by the guy who ****ed her mom and that she's running off with?

Nothing like pouring salt on the wound, eh Rev?

:giggle:

Kaylore
06-06-2012, 01:00 PM
Break up. Dead serious.

There it is. So simple. So right. And the first advise in the thread.

I'm glad for TheChamp's daughter and hope he's a great father. Her aside, this should have been followed. Dead-beat woman.

Kaylore
06-06-2012, 01:04 PM
I am glad it all worked out for you in the end.

Hilarious! Now you're being mean.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 01:06 PM
So in December, I'm trying to help this guy get work at the manufacturing company I work at. No go.
Christmas comes, it was a good Christmas for me, my family came over, we all got along, it was fun. Then, around 4-5 when my family starts to leave, the Mrs. pulls me aside and says that Kyle, the new guy, is homesick and sad, and she's going to go take him to the bar.
A few hours pass by, she comes home drunk, I'm upset that she went drinking on Christmas with some other guy. She thought I was being too controlling of her.
Next day, we have some gift cards/XMas money, I wanted to go shopping. She doesn't wake up til about 3 in the afternoon. I again stress that this is a family time, we should be having fun as a family. She thinks I'm overreacting and being controlling.


Fast forward to December 30th, when she pulls me aside, and says I'm changing, and she doesn't like the man I'm changing into, and we should break up, she needs some time to think, take a break, etc.

Well, 2 days later, I confront her about her sleeping with Kyle, and she admits to doing it that day(the 1st). I'm not a happy camper, and almost threw him out of the house. Looking back, probably should have, but the now former Mrs. threatened to leave, with the kids, with him. I just was overwhelmed and didn't know what to do at the time.

Hilarious!

please, go on...

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 01:07 PM
I wish I could say I felt ANY empathy, but OP really asked for all of this.

Beta males gonna beta.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 01:11 PM
I was considering moving out, but the kids actually needed me because nobody else made any income, or had a car. So I stuck it up for a month, and then February when douche couldn't pay, I confronted he needed to pay up. A little argument insued, and the former Mrs. was livid saying I would never see my child again.

Well, I talked with the landlord, and found a loophole in the lease agreement. Kyle wasn't on the lease, and the lease states guests can not stay longer than 15 days without written permission from the landlord. I tell my landlord I want him gone, so he writes up a letter saying this guest needs to pay extra money or leave within 3 days. Well, upon giving this letter to the former Mrs. and Kyle, the genius decides the best course of action is assaulting me, in front of both kids(one 6 by the way). He started to punch me, knocked me on the ground, then pounded my head against the wall before letting up, at which point I ran to grab the nearest working phone, the former Mrs. phone, and she gets livid, threatening to break my computer if I call the police. Whatever, I dial, she throws my computer on the ground, and then packs up her car she bought with her tax money with Kyle. Police came, I told them they just left, and what happened was he ended up getting arrested with a charge of family violence, and I had an emergency protective order put on him. Should of added my child to it.

Anyways, the former Mrs. isn't too happy, but talks with me about trying things with me again. I'm thinking about the kids, and wondering what she might be up to. Kyle's bailed out by his mom on the premise he return to, you guessed it, Myrtle Beach. She also tried to bribe me to drop the charges. He stays in a hotel room, and finally the former Mrs. actions come to fruition as she takes the children to the hotel room, and says "I'm not safe to be around anymore".

Well, this was on a Sunday, so next day I hire a lawyer to fight for custody of my child. The guy's arraignment is set for the following Thursday, at which point he would plead guilty and they would leave for Myrtle Beach, so I had to get her served ASAP.

Also, to point out here, she threatened if I tried to fight for custody, she would win, so there would be no point.

Well, she gets served on Thursday when she's picking up Kyle from his arraignment in which he pleaded guilty, and was CONVICTED of Family Violence.
An hour later, I get a phone call from the former Mrs. stating if I want my child, to meet her at a Wal Mart parking lot. I agree, go there, and she hands me the child, while forcing me to sign a quick hand written paper saying she relinquishes her rights to the child, and I agree to drop the suit against her.

I contacted my lawyer, told him about the document, which 2 copies were signed, one for me, one for her. He said that doesn't mean squat, you singed it under durress(she threatened if I didn't sign it, she would leave that day to Myrtle Beach with the child), and advised me to continue the suit.

Well, I now had custody of the child, and continuing the suit, and at this point I moved in with my mother as I needed a place to stay, cheap, with the baby. Me and the lawyer waited to see if the former Mrs. filed a response, and she didn't, which means she defaulted, which means I got to present my case to the judge by myself.

In April, I was awarded custody of my daughter, with exclusive rights to her, while the mother is actually due to pay child support, of which I doubt I see a dime of.

In fact, in her haste to leave Texas, she never registered and changed the title of her car from when she bought it, and left the title. Why is this important? Because she was more concerned asking me to mail her the title than asking if her daughter started walking yet.

I ignore communication with the mother, and continue to post updates on the website I was court ordered to use.

Moral to the story:
Everything happens for a reason(I have a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing daughter)
Don't ever, ever, ever seek long term relationships with a crazy woman

here's another moral of the story: you're a moron.

DomCasual
06-06-2012, 01:31 PM
As I read this thread, I can't help thinking, "There but for the grace of God, go I!"

This is the kind of thing that could happen to any one of us.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 01:32 PM
As I read this thread, I can't help thinking, "There but for the grace of God, go I!"

This is the kind of thing that could happen to any one of us.

uh, no.

DomCasual
06-06-2012, 01:38 PM
uh, no.

Well, sure - maybe not the Myrtle Beach part of it. Or the part about the step-daughter getting hurt while attacking her canopy bed. Or even the part about trying to get a guy a job while he is fornicating with your lady friend. Or maybe even the part about getting your daughter in the Walmart parking lot, while your lady friend signs over her rights on a contract drawn out on a table napkin.

I'm talking about the other parts. Those things could happen to any one of us.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 01:47 PM
Well, sure - maybe not the Myrtle Beach part of it. Or the part about the step-daughter getting hurt while attacking her canopy bed. Or even the part about trying to get a guy a job while he is fornicating with your lady friend. Or maybe even the part about getting your daughter in the Walmart parking lot, while your lady friend signs over her rights on a contract drawn out on a table napkin.

I'm talking about the other parts. Those things could happen to any one of us.

oh, well ok then.

lonestar
06-06-2012, 01:55 PM
here's another moral of the story: you're a moron.

actually love is blind..

lonestar
06-06-2012, 01:58 PM
only read a little about this page one and then the last page..

how about, walk a mile in his moccasins before opening ones mouth..

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 01:59 PM
actually love is blind..

Or, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink....

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 02:00 PM
only read a little about this page one and then the last page..

how about, walk a mile in his moccasins before opening ones mouth..

how about you read the whole thread before you spout off?

broncswin
06-06-2012, 02:00 PM
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Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 02:04 PM
only read a little about this page one and then the last page..

how about, walk a mile in his moccasins before opening ones mouth..

If you read the whole thread, you'd feel like you walked more than a mile. I feel like I've walked all the way to Myrtle Beach myself.

BroncoBen
06-06-2012, 02:09 PM
... I know I'm leaving some stuff out, but basically, I want to hear what other people think of moving out there, which she wants to do in June, for what she feels is the right thing to do, and will make us stable and happy.

My Philosophy in life has always been.. 'The best time to find a job.. is when you have a job'.
If you can take some time ... go out to Myrtle Beach and see if you leave some resumes, make some contacts, get a feel for the job market.

Your girl working in the 'Server Industry' can get a job anywhere, anytime... It's going to be you that are going to have a rough go at finding a job in what you went to school for.

Don't feel pressure in having to make this move in June.. take a couple of months to figure it out.

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 02:10 PM
I moved out to California with a girl...she stopped paying rent because she got fired, then I found out she cheated on me with a neighbor. I called a moving company to pack everything I owned the next day (all the furniture, dishes, bed set, etc..) and drove home immediately. Didn't regret the move or the experience but at a certain point you have to know when to fold your hand.

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 02:11 PM
My Philosophy in life has always been.. 'The best time to find a job.. is when you have a job'.
If you can take some time ... go out to Myrtle Beach and see if you leave some resumes, make some contacts, get a feel for the job market.

Your girl working in the 'Server Industry' can get a job anywhere, anytime... It's going to be you that are going to have a rough go at finding a job in what you went to school for.

Don't feel pressure in having to make this move in June.. take a couple of months to figure it out.

whoa...did you just read the first post of this mammoth thread??

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 02:11 PM
My Philosophy in life has always been.. 'The best time to find a job.. is when you have a job'.
If you can take some time ... go out to Myrtle Beach and see if you leave some resumes, make some contacts, get a feel for the job market.

Your girl working in the 'Server Industry' can get a job anywhere, anytime... It's going to be you that are going to have a rough go at finding a job in what you went to school for.

Don't feel pressure in having to make this move in June.. take a couple of months to figure it out.

fyi - You're responding to a 2+ year old post. A whole lot has happened since then.

BroncoBen
06-06-2012, 02:13 PM
fyi - You're responding to a 2+ year old post. A whole lot has happened since then.

LOL... My bad... yes, I just read the 1st post.

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 02:16 PM
Thread starts: 25 years old, single but engaged, good job, living on his own.

Thread ends: 27 years old, single after fiancee cheats on him with live in roommate, same job?, living with his parents with a baby that mommy wants no part of, in middle of custody battle and other potential litigation as a result of getting beat up in front of said kid by the live in......and he also now has a record with Child Protective Services courtesy of his step daughter at the time.

And yet someone thinks "it all worked out for him"........only on the Mane.

Considering I have a beautiful daughter that means the world to me, I have a stable job gaining the precious experience, and no longer have to deal with her crazy ass, I feel it all has worked out.
I have been raising my daughter for almost 4 months on my own now. I caught her up on immunizations, enrolled her in a great daycare, ensure she has plenty of food, bathe her every night, lotion every night, make sure she is stocked up on clean clothes and diapers. Get her doctor visits if she's sick, spend pretty much all my free time playing/interacting with her. The moment she started to walk has been one of the happiest days of my life, it was amazing for me.

As for all the comments why I didn't beat up Kyle, etc. Well, who has a criminal record now? Not I, heck I've been told Kyle has had some trouble getting a decent job due to him having a criminal assault charge now. And if the former Mrs. ever wants to try to "win back" her kid(not likely able to anyways since she lost already), and if she is still with him, guess who gets to play "My child is not living in the household of a man convicted of family violence" card?

I will admit I chose things poorly, but if I broke up with her back then, I wouldn't have this beautiful daughter to raise.

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 02:18 PM
I moved out to California with a girl...she stopped paying rent because she got fired, then I found out she cheated on me with a neighbor. I called a moving company to pack everything I owned the next day (all the furniture, dishes, bed set, etc..) and drove home immediately. Didn't regret the move or the experience but at a certain point you have to know when to fold your hand.

We've all been burned at one time or another. The smart people know when to cut their losses (like you).

Oh, and when to listen to sound advice from others.

That being said, you can't fix stupid and stubburn.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 02:22 PM
I will admit I chose things poorly, but if I broke up with her back then, I wouldn't have this beautiful daughter to raise.

Don't be so sure about that. You could be happily married to someone else right now and have a child with them. One decision two years ago changed everything.

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 02:23 PM
Don't be so sure about that. You could be happily married to someone else right now and have a child with them. One decision two years ago changed everything.

or could be a 27 year old single guy with a great job and a nice apartment, going out every weekend and enjoying the last few years of youth

but hey, he sounds happy so really thats all that matters

vancejohnson82
06-06-2012, 02:25 PM
We've all been burned at one time or another. The smart people know when to cut their losses (like you).

Oh, and when to listen to sound advice from others.

That being said, you can't fix stupid and stubburn.

first person I called was my father when I found out...he said point blank what he would do...i followed suit and it was the best thing I ever did...no drama, no police, no fighting nothing....just a nice long cross country drive with my dog to mentally untangle myself...got home and was ready to rock 3 days laters

Tombstone RJ
06-06-2012, 02:29 PM
first person I called was my father when I found out...he said point blank what he would do...i followed suit and it was the best thing I ever did...no drama, no police, no fighting nothing....just a nice long cross country drive with my dog to mentally untangle myself...got home and was ready to rock 3 days laters

I've been hammered in a past relationship too. I walked away from it before it got ugly. I gave her the house and everything in it except for what I could pack into a van.

I have no regrets, it's absolutely the best decision I could have made.

HILife
06-06-2012, 02:31 PM
whoa...did you just read the first post of this mammoth thread??

LMAO! I saw that. You a little late to the party.

Miss I.
06-06-2012, 02:42 PM
Okay, so now we know what Orton was doing in the off seasons...it explains a lot.

BroncoMan4ever
06-06-2012, 02:42 PM
Okay, I'm in the process of making a decision in my life, and need some advice.

I am currently living in Texas, and I hate it here, only reason I moved here was to be near my family. However, there are family issues and I really want to move away.
First, let me say I got involved with a great woman, and we got engaged not too long ago. She moved here in Texas to be with me, but alas, she hates it here too. Now, I don't want to get in too many details, but she had a terrible childhood that caused her to have to drop out of high school, but is set on getting a GED to get into college. She is 22, and I am 25 with a Bachelor's in Accounting from University of Oklahoma. I have an okay job for a private company here, but could definitely get a better one with the economy picking up. She hasn't had a job because she continues to get hired at a place and either not like it, or the pay/hours are **** and no use working it for getting the price back to cover the gas.
Also, she has a 4 year old daughter, so makes it tougher.
Now, she comes from the East Coast, Myrtle Beach, SC. She is very easy-going, comfortable and I'll say "care-free". Most people over there are. Well, she tells me we can move to Myrtle Beach, cut our expenses down, she can easily get a job as a server, and she has contacts and a staffing agency that can get me a job in a month. Basically, become financially stable because we aren't here.
Now, my parents/family will be upset due to the fact that I am leaving a job, known income, to go someplace where there is no guarantee, and also have no money.

I know I'm leaving some stuff out, but basically, I want to hear what other people think of moving out there, which she wants to do in June, for what she feels is the right thing to do, and will make us stable and happy.
if she is a chronic job jumper i personally wouldn't out much stock into what she says about getting a job as a server. also considering you have a decent job now, don't leave for a new one until you know you have another one lined up. unless you have a good amount of savings built up and can live on that while you find a new job and even though the economy is picking up some, nothing is guaranteed.

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 02:44 PM
Another person who missed this the first few times it was bumped? How is this possible?

I almost envy them going through this for the first time all over again.

:)

55CrushEm
06-06-2012, 02:44 PM
This bears repeating...

HE LET THE DUDE WHO BANGED HIS WOMAN CONTINUE TO LIVE WITH THEM!!!!

WTF ?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Beantown Bronco
06-06-2012, 02:46 PM
This bears repeating...

HE LET THE DUDE WHO BANGED HIS WOMAN CONTINUE TO LIVE WITH THEM!!!!

WTF ?!?!?!?!?!?!?

And what's even funnier is he'd probably still be there banging away if all he did was pay a little rent.

Dr. Broncenstein
06-06-2012, 02:49 PM
I moved out to California with a girl...she stopped paying rent because she got fired, then I found out she cheated on me with a neighbor. I called a moving company to pack everything I owned the next day (all the furniture, dishes, bed set, etc..) and drove home immediately. Didn't regret the move or the experience but at a certain point you have to know when to fold your hand.

You gotta know when to hold 'em... know when to fold 'em.

cutthemdown
06-06-2012, 02:53 PM
Considering I have a beautiful daughter that means the world to me, I have a stable job gaining the precious experience, and no longer have to deal with her crazy ass, I feel it all has worked out.
I have been raising my daughter for almost 4 months on my own now. I caught her up on immunizations, enrolled her in a great daycare, ensure she has plenty of food, bathe her every night, lotion every night, make sure she is stocked up on clean clothes and diapers. Get her doctor visits if she's sick, spend pretty much all my free time playing/interacting with her. The moment she started to walk has been one of the happiest days of my life, it was amazing for me.

As for all the comments why I didn't beat up Kyle, etc. Well, who has a criminal record now? Not I, heck I've been told Kyle has had some trouble getting a decent job due to him having a criminal assault charge now. And if the former Mrs. ever wants to try to "win back" her kid(not likely able to anyways since she lost already), and if she is still with him, guess who gets to play "My child is not living in the household of a man convicted of family violence" card?

I will admit I chose things poorly, but if I broke up with her back then, I wouldn't have this beautiful daughter to raise.

have you made her pay child support yet?

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 02:55 PM
have you made her pay child support yet?

I've processed it all, and its still in the "establishment" phase with the Attorney General's office here in Houston.
The court order that was signed stated child support was due to begin May 1st, Talking with my lawyer he said usually the courts won't do much unless the dollar amount gets in the thousands. I figure if she continues to be a bitch about things, and not pay, come next year I just might look at going to the courts and have them deal with it.

TheReverend
06-06-2012, 03:00 PM
I've processed it all, and its still in the "establishment" phase with the Attorney General's office here in Houston.
The court order that was signed stated child support was due to begin May 1st, Talking with my lawyer he said usually the courts won't do much unless the dollar amount gets in the thousands. I figure if she continues to be a b**** about things, and not pay, come next year I just might look at going to the courts and have them deal with it.

No you won't.

You're her bitch.

...As you've exhibited throughout the ENTIRETY of this thread.

55CrushEm
06-06-2012, 03:08 PM
And what's even funnier is he'd probably still be there banging away if all he did was pay a little rent.

Yeah....both guys made bad decisions......

OP, for obviously allowing a banger-of-thy-woman to continue to live in the residence......

And the banger, for not leaving well enough alone.....i.e. he was getting free rent and sex, yet he was dumb enough to attack the guy that was allowing it. Talk about biting the hand that feeds you!

:giggle:

underrated29
06-06-2012, 03:16 PM
No you won't.

You're her b****.

...As you've exhibited throughout the ENTIRETY of this thread.

100% what i was thinking.



24champ- This is not an equal relationship (even though its over you still have to deal with her on some level so it is a relationship just not a loving one)- this relationship only has two things:
1-the dominant person
2-the biotch.

Dont be the bitch, this is your lesson and time to learn. One of you two is going to be the bitch, there is no way around it. It will happen. So if you are tired of feeling like this, and making excuses about how great it is being a young single dad is, then man the eff up and bring the hammer down on her. You've been the bitch the entire relationship she will not be expecting you to switch the roles on her and catch her by surprise. Be the man, be the one large and in charge for your daughter.

cutthemdown
06-06-2012, 03:16 PM
I've processed it all, and its still in the "establishment" phase with the Attorney General's office here in Houston.
The court order that was signed stated child support was due to begin May 1st, Talking with my lawyer he said usually the courts won't do much unless the dollar amount gets in the thousands. I figure if she continues to be a b**** about things, and not pay, come next year I just might look at going to the courts and have them deal with it.

You should. Paying for kids goes both ways, women should not get out of it. Don't worry so much about people making fun of you. If it's just in fun, little jabs no big deal, but when it gets personal I feel it says more about the person hurling the insult, then it does what happened to you.

The statement from attorney courts won't deal with it until its in the thousands sounds sort of fishy to me. I work in a law office part time and usually that means they are too busy to do it right now. Its ok though if the guy a good lawyer it doesn't mean much other then he is busy and will say what he needs to say to clients. Sometimes outright ignore them because answering the phone is a billable thing etc etc. Then you could also start a facebook page about how she is a deadbeat mom, send invites to everyone you know that knows her. Worked well for a person I know in CA except they did it through twitter.

brncs_fan
06-06-2012, 03:19 PM
Okay, I'm in the process of making a decision in my life, and need some advice.

I am currently living in Texas, and I hate it here, only reason I moved here was to be near my family. However, there are family issues and I really want to move away.
First, let me say I got involved with a great woman, and we got engaged not too long ago. She moved here in Texas to be with me, but alas, she hates it here too. Now, I don't want to get in too many details, but she had a terrible childhood that caused her to have to drop out of high school, but is set on getting a GED to get into college. She is 22, and I am 25 with a Bachelor's in Accounting from University of Oklahoma. I have an okay job for a private company here, but could definitely get a better one with the economy picking up. She hasn't had a job because she continues to get hired at a place and either not like it, or the pay/hours are **** and no use working it for getting the price back to cover the gas.
Also, she has a 4 year old daughter, so makes it tougher.
Now, she comes from the East Coast, Myrtle Beach, SC. She is very easy-going, comfortable and I'll say "care-free". Most people over there are. Well, she tells me we can move to Myrtle Beach, cut our expenses down, she can easily get a job as a server, and she has contacts and a staffing agency that can get me a job in a month. Basically, become financially stable because we aren't here.
Now, my parents/family will be upset due to the fact that I am leaving a job, known income, to go someplace where there is no guarantee, and also have no money.

I know I'm leaving some stuff out, but basically, I want to hear what other people think of moving out there, which she wants to do in June, for what she feels is the right thing to do, and will make us stable and happy.

I say go for it! What is the worst that could happen? It's not like you are going to knock her up and then catch her cheating on you with your roommate that she wanted to move in with you and then get the **** kicked out of you by said roommate and end up living back at home with your mom trying to get child support payments.

Kaylore
06-06-2012, 03:35 PM
I've processed it all, and its still in the "establishment" phase with the Attorney General's office here in Houston.
The court order that was signed stated child support was due to begin May 1st, Talking with my lawyer he said usually the courts won't do much unless the dollar amount gets in the thousands. I figure if she continues to be a b**** about things, and not pay, come next year I just might look at going to the courts and have them deal with it.

You might just think about looking into going to court for the money you're owed if you still aren't getting paid in a year?

Can I have $200 dollars? I'll totally pay you back. Trust me.

Miss I.
06-06-2012, 03:46 PM
You might just think about looking into going to court for the money you're owed if you still aren't getting paid in a year?

Can I have $200 dollars? I'll totally pay you back. Trust me.

for some reason this made me think of this important story from Popeye...

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I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today...

TheChamp24
06-06-2012, 03:52 PM
Okay guys, let me enlighten some of you. I won my court back in mid April, and immediately set up a case with the Attorney General for establishing child support referencing the court case number.
Just now there is an update that the Attorney General has been appointed to handle the payments for child support, all payments are paid to them, who then pay me. This is to keep an accurate record of all payments, and she can't claim she paid me cash and I accepted it. Only acceptable child support payments are done through them. Plus, if she's employed, it is supposed to be taken out of her paycheck automatically. From a source, I hear she's gotten fired from a recent job, and the other thing of note I found out, she's pregnant. lol

Now, with the child support, yes I'm entitled to it, but she's in another state, and actually has not been served with official court papers of the outcome of the custody battle. She knows I won, she knows she's supposed to pay child support. I don't want to pay the process server fees for getting her officially served, especially since I don't know her exact location. Add to it, if I went to the courts saying she isn't paying, they would need to be able to find out where she is to serve her that I'm going after her for the child support.
I'm honestly waiting to get all the child support stuff set up and processed, and then look at what I can do. The least of my concerns right now are forcing her to pay money because then I would actually have to have communication outside the family website I'm using, which she has yet to sign up for.

Cleo McDowell
06-06-2012, 04:06 PM
well....

Godspeed...

If she ever comes knocking (I'd put money on it), DONT TAKE HER BACK.

55CrushEm
06-06-2012, 04:17 PM
well....

Godspeed...

If she ever comes knocking (I'd put money on it), DONT TAKE HER BACK.

THIS X 100,000,000,000,000,000 !!!!!

underrated29
06-06-2012, 04:19 PM
well....

Godspeed...

If she ever comes knocking (I'd put money on it), Blow it in her eye first. But.. DONT TAKE HER BACK.




Fixed.

delany
06-06-2012, 04:19 PM
Can we get RockPaperSissors to offer her opinion now?

Ratboy
06-06-2012, 04:20 PM
I'd be doing everything I could to find her exact location. You need to get your money, it will help raise your child.