There is nothing like a white boy

[Spider]

Parking in the middle of the drive way to set off racial tensions ........Ok I ****ed up , didnt know it was a drive way , really didnt care , I handed over my paper work , the lady gave me my Door # , I go walking outside and there are 2 black guys as mad as hell ........ the big one said ........ Hey Cracker is this your truck , I responded sure is spear chucker .........he said do you honkeys always block driveways ....... I said who are you to be questioning a white man that way ...few more insults got traded , finally i said step up mother ****er i will beat your black ass all over Lancaster PA ........to my surprise he walked off so did the other one ........ Now I am not a racist , but he was .........I look at this way he wants to hate me for the color of my skin , I wil return the favor , I am getting sick and tired of reversed racism........

[Rohirrim]

Nice to know Spider is out there in America winning hearts and minds.

[Spider]

Nice to know Spider is out there in America winning hearts and minds.

People skills , thats what it is all about .......but besides that what was supposed to do ?

[cutthemdown]

Parking in the middle of the drive way to set off racial tensions ........Ok I ****ed up , didnt know it was a drive way , really didnt care , I handed over my paper work , the lady gave me my Door # , I go walking outside and there are 2 black guys as mad as hell ........ the big one said ........ Hey Cracker is this your truck , I responded sure is spear chucker .........he said do you honkeys always block driveways ....... I said who are you to be questioning a white man that way ...few more insults got traded , finally i said step up mother ****er i will beat your black ass all over Lancaster PA ........to my surprise he walked off so did the other one ........ Now I am not a racist , but he was .........I look at this way he wants to hate me for the color of my skin , I wil return the favor , I am getting sick and tired of reversed racism........

There is no such thing as reverse racism don't you know?

[cutthemdown]

People skills , thats what it is all about .......but besides that what was supposed to do ?

IMO one smart ass inflammatory comment can be followed up by equal or more offensive then the first said comment.

It's like on the school yard you can't just tie, you have to try and one up them.

Good you didn't use the N word that would have been like breaking out an Uzi in a snowball fight.

[Spider]

There is no such thing as reverse racism don't you know?

well , all I know is when I walked out the door , if he would have said , hey man , you need to pull your truck froward , you are blocking the driveway , I would have apologized , and moved froward ... but since he was an racist ass , I became one right back .........

[Spider]

IMO one smart ass inflammatory comment can be followed up by equal or more offensive then the first said comment.

It's like on the school yard you can't just tie, you have to try and one up them.

Good you didn't use the N word that would have been like breaking out an Uzi in a snowball fight.

i did use the N word , more then once , and mentioned something about beating his ass back into slavery ( the part were a few more insults got traded) He called me a ghost , cracker , dickhead , and some kind of cheese I think

[cutthemdown]

well , all I know is when I walked out the door , if he would have said , hey man , you need to pull your truck froward , you are blocking the driveway , I would have apologized , and moved froward ... but since he was an racist ass , I became one right back .........

getting mad is ok IMO. He could say dammit you dumb ****, you are costing me time parking your big ass truck in the driveway like you own it.

But he had to call you a cracker which is no different then you coming right out the door and screaming hey N***** get away from truck.

Getting mad is what men do, but you can't just fire off a racial slur. Most of the time I tell you that your temper is out of control, but all you did is make a mistake where you parked it's not a huge deal and certainly you don't treat another man they way these dudes treated you without expecting either the dude to be a punk or to fire something back.

Most black men think whites are afraid of them. When a white boy stands up to a brother the first thing they think is uh oh this white boy is crazy.

[Drek]

There is no such thing as reverse racism don't you know?

Of course there is. Plenty of people like to get their interracial freak on just because of the racial differences.

Now if you're talking about racist views from blacks towards whites etc., those bigoted views held by those of a typically minority race, well that isn't reverse anything, thats just plain old racism.

[The Lone Bolt]

I think you could have handled it more gracefully.

But that's just MHO.;)

[Spider]

getting mad is ok IMO. He could say dammit you dumb ****, you are costing me time parking your big ass truck in the driveway like you own it.

But he had to call you a cracker which is no different then you coming right out the door and screaming hey N***** get away from truck.

Getting mad is what men do, but you can't just fire off a racial slur. Most of the time I tell you that your temper is out of control, but all you did is make a mistake where you parked it's not a huge deal and certainly you don't treat another man they way these dudes treated you without expecting either the dude to be a punk or to fire something back.

Most black men think whites are afraid of them. When a white boy stands up to a brother the first thing they think is uh oh this white boy is crazy.
they must have thought I was nuts ...... the one was so damn skinny he could fall through his own asshole and hang himself , but the big guy was about 260 pounds or so , he did all of the talking ...... He had that hot dog package look on the back of his neck ........

[Spider]

I think you could have handled it more gracefully.

But that's just MHO.;)

I dont know , one thing I have learned is , you show a sign of weakness , People will become more brave , to the point you have to knock em on their ass to get them to see the light so to speak

[alkemical]

Parking in the middle of the drive way to set off racial tensions ........Ok I ****ed up , didnt know it was a drive way , really didnt care , I handed over my paper work , the lady gave me my Door # , I go walking outside and there are 2 black guys as mad as hell ........ the big one said ........ Hey Cracker is this your truck , I responded sure is spear chucker .........he said do you honkeys always block driveways ....... I said who are you to be questioning a white man that way ...few more insults got traded , finally i said step up mother ****er i will beat your black ass all over Lancaster PA ........to my surprise he walked off so did the other one ........ Now I am not a racist , but he was .........I look at this way he wants to hate me for the color of my skin , I wil return the favor , I am getting sick and tired of reversed racism........

DUDE, you come around like 30min from me and you don't give a holler?

**** you, if i ever see you - i'm punching you in the throat, not once, but twice.

[Spider]

DUDE, you come around like 30min from me and you don't give a holler?

**** you, if i ever see you - i'm punching you in the throat, not once, but twice.

;D I am over here at anderson bakery right now after this I have to go to manhiem PA drop this wagon

[cutthemdown]

they must have thought I was nuts ...... the one was so damn skinny he could fall through his own a-hole and hang himself , but the big guy was about 260 pounds or so , he did all of the talking ...... He had that hot dog package look on the back of his neck ........

I call that Shar Pei neck.

[alkemical]

;D I am over here at anderson bakery right now after this I have to go to manhiem PA drop this wagon

you f*cker - lol

[ak1971]

I think you could have handled it more gracefully.

But that's just MHO.;)

He could have puched him in the throat ROFL!

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

Most black men think whites are afraid of them.

:oyvey:

Looks like racism is alive and well on the Mane.

[Spider]

:oyvey:

Looks like racism is alive and well on the Mane.

I think he might be right though ......... when i didnt back down and gave the **** right back 2 fold , both guys started backing off .........

[cutthemdown]

:oyvey:

Looks like racism is alive and well on the Mane.

Racism is thinking one race superior to the other. I just have never ever felt that way. You can play that card all you want it doesn't bother me but it does show where you are coming from.

[SJ Bronco]

While i don't agree with how he handled it, but I will confirm that Black people have surpassed all other races as THE most racist race. (say that three times fast) I think its the hip hop culture preaching intolerance for everything. I myself as a half black guy, find I get more ignorance from the black side of my family than i get from anywhere else. I will say however that i only find this amusing because it's spider. I know he's not a racist, but if it was some random dude on the street, I'd probably would have gotten into a heated exchange. I don't think that you fight ignorance with the same. It just makes the world go round itself. I'd probably have called them racist pricks that deserve what they get in life.

[Spider]

While i don't agree with how he handled it, but I will confirm that Black people have surpassed all other races as THE most racist race. (say that three times fast) I think its the hip hop culture preaching intolerance for everything. I myself as a half black guy, find I get more ignorance from the black side of my family than i get from anywhere else. I will say however that i only find this amusing because it's spider. I know he's not a racist, but if it was some random dude on the street, I'd probably would have gotten into a heated exchange. I don't think that you fight ignorance with the same. It just makes the world go round itself. I'd probably have called them racist pricks that deserve what they get in life. Thanks , for understanding ....

[SJ Bronco]

Thanks , for understanding ....

You know why this makes me mad? Cause as badly as you reacted to this, your still right. Its morons like that that make me tell people I'm half Irish/Italian. I mean the strong fighters of the 60's are gone, and the youth today is a disgrace. I coach teenager, let me tell you, it's only gonna get worse with this generation. I give a scouting report, and the kids want to know the race of the QB so they know if he's fast or not? and this is in NoCal, I wonder what the kids are like in Alabama?!

[Spider]

You know why this makes me mad? Cause as badly as you reacted to this, your still right. Its morons like that that make me tell people I'm half Irish/Italian. I mean the strong fighters of the 60's are gone, and the youth today is a disgrace. I coach teenager, let me tell you, it's only gonna get worse with this generation. I give a scouting report, and the kids want to know the race of the QB so they know if he's fast or not? and this is in NoCal, I wonder what the kids are like in Alabama?!

From what I seen , the kids in Alabama for the most part interact well ...... it is the adults that have more issues ....

[SJ Bronco]

From what I seen , the kids in Alabama for the most part interact well ...... it is the adults that have more issues ....

Oh, they get along just fine, but they feel the need for them to fit into their own stereotypes.

[Spider]

Oh, they get along just fine, but they feel the need for them to fit into their own stereotypes.

I am no expert by any means , but I have seen enough of this country and people that live all over to know Racism is different in different parts of the country , for example you got your traditional racist in the south , in the north you have the I am white I will look out for your interest cause you are black and dont know any better racism , in Cali , everyone hates everyone ....... in Ari I have noticed Hispanics and whites getting along better then blacks and hispanics , new Mexico and Wyoming are unique , the Native Americans hate just about every one .......

[epicSocialism4tw]

Parking in the middle of the drive way to set off racial tensions ........Ok I ****ed up , didnt know it was a drive way , really didnt care , I handed over my paper work , the lady gave me my Door # , I go walking outside and there are 2 black guys as mad as hell ........ the big one said ........ Hey Cracker is this your truck , I responded sure is spear chucker .........he said do you honkeys always block driveways ....... I said who are you to be questioning a white man that way ...few more insults got traded , finally i said step up mother ****er i will beat your black ass all over Lancaster PA ........to my surprise he walked off so did the other one ........ Now I am not a racist , but he was .........I look at this way he wants to hate me for the color of my skin , I wil return the favor , I am getting sick and tired of reversed racism........

Um...Spider...

You might want to talk to your doctor about blood pressure medicine...or maybe Xanax...or both.

[Spider]

Um...Spider...

You might want to talk to your doctor about blood pressure medicine...or maybe Xanax...or both.

blood pressure is fine ....... So what would you have done ?

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

Racism is thinking one race superior to the other. I just have never ever felt that way. You can play that card all you want it doesn't bother me but it does show where you are coming from.

Bullsh*t.

You just made a statement about an entire group of people (or "most" of that group) based on skin color.

[epicSocialism4tw]

blood pressure is fine ....... So what would you have done ?

I would have used my eye-lasers to destroy them.

[Spider]

I would have used my eye-lasers to destroy them.
i will tell you this , white , black , Hispanic , it doesnt matter , you show fear
, or back down , you will get eatin alive , these guys were mere thugs , they was just unlucky enough to run into another thug ....... i will tell what made me talk instead of start punching ....... the thought of going ot jail in Landcaster PA , when I got a wife and 6 kids depending on me ....... Believe me , I wanted to just walk up and deck that mother ****er without saying a word , but I used my people skills instead ..... but people skills doesnt always work .....

[SJ Bronco]

i will tell you this , white , black , Hispanic , it doesnt matter , you show fear
, or back down , you will get eatin alive , these guys were mere thugs , they was just unlucky enough to run into another thug ....... i will tell what made me talk instead of start punching ....... the thought of going ot jail in Landcaster PA , when I got a wife and 6 kids depending on me ....... Believe me , I wanted to just walk up and deck that mother ****er without saying a word , but I used my people skills instead ..... but people skills doesnt always work .....

LOL! @ "people skills"

[Spider]

LOL! @ "people skills"

;D they come in handy some times

[SJ Bronco]

I show my "people skills" every time some one in a toyota minivan cuts me off going 25 MPH on the freeway.:chairhit: :cuss: 4321~

[Spider]

I show my "people skills" every time some one in a toyota minivan cuts me off going 25 MPH on the freeway.:chairhit: :cuss: 4321~

I had a woman in a mini van pull out in front of me today with Kids on highway 30 outside of Gettysburg PA today , she came right out of her driveway without looking ...... my heart stop beating for a second or 2 , i got this piece of **** stopped I still dont know how without wrecking .... I just anchored it right there in the middle of the road ......

[cutthemdown]

Bullsh*t.

You just made a statement about an entire group of people (or "most" of that group) based on skin color.

At worst that would be a Stereotype not racism.

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

At worst that would be a Stereotype not racism.

And you're defending this?

[SJ Bronco]

At worst that would be a Stereotype not racism.

the two are related....

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

the two are related....

Yep.

Especially when he starts his sentence with "most black men believe ______."

[DomCasual]

Spider = Mock 2.0

:)

[cutthemdown]

And you're defending this?

Yeah I'm saying that many black men expect whites to back down in a confrontation. Most probably is a bad statement but i will say most of the black men who will get into a confrontation expect that.

If that makes me a racist in your eyes then fine I could care less what you think.

I'm not defending anything just saying what I have seen in life and what many of my black friends have told me. They make jokes all the time about only having to look a little mean and white dudes cross the street. It's just a fact.

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

Yeah I'm saying that many black men expect whites to back down in a confrontation. Most probably is a bad statement but i will say most of the black men who will get into a confrontation expect that.

If that makes me a racist in your eyes then fine I could care less what you think.

I'm not defending anything just saying what I have seen in life and what many of my black friends have told me. They make jokes all the time about only having to look a little mean and white dudes cross the street. It's just a fact.

You didn't say "many" - you said "most."

No matter how you try to spin it, your statement was racist.

[cutthemdown]

You didn't say "many" - you said "most."

No matter how you try to spin it, your statement was racist.

not trying to spin anything what i said is true

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

Cutthemdown's day gig?

McCain Campaign Organizer Dumped after Authoring Racist Op-Ed; It was very pretty distasteful 10/9 (http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/10/8/115220/150/507/623941)

[alkemical]

i will tell you this , white , black , Hispanic , it doesnt matter , you show fear
, or back down , you will get eatin alive , these guys were mere thugs , they was just unlucky enough to run into another thug ....... i will tell what made me talk instead of start punching ....... the thought of going ot jail in Landcaster PA , when I got a wife and 6 kids depending on me ....... Believe me , I wanted to just walk up and deck that mother ****er without saying a word , but I used my people skills instead ..... but people skills doesnt always work .....

Spider, first off - It's lancaster. It's pronounced laancaster (you have to drag that first a bit) - Second of all - lancaster isn't always the nicest "city" in pa. It's far better than york. But outside of the city is kinda funny - lots of farm land, and a few amish.

I worked on west james st in lancaster...one night i was outside taking a smoke break (i worked 7p-7a) - and at about...i dunno 2ish...pop pop pop pop - i dunno - a half a block away - ya...break time was ovah.

[snowspot66]

You didn't say "many" - you said "most."

No matter how you try to spin it, your statement was racist.

It's a logical fallacy not a racist statement. A racist statement is one meant to demean, place one group above another, and/or directly harm/threaten. A lack of making the distinction between the two is a big reason a lot of people get into fights. It's like a "you people" statement but even less powerful. People that want to take offense will, others won't even notice. If somebody said you people to me I wouldn't even take notice.

Now if he had said "Most N****** expect a white boy to back down" I think we can all agree that would be pretty racist.

[Spider]

Spider, first off - It's lancaster. It's pronounced laancaster (you have to drag that first a bit) - Second of all - lancaster isn't always the nicest "city" in pa. It's far better than york. But outside of the city is kinda funny - lots of farm land, and a few amish.

I worked on west james st in lancaster...one night i was outside taking a smoke break (i worked 7p-7a) - and at about...i dunno 2ish...pop pop pop pop - i dunno - a half a block away - ya...break time was ovah.

LOL i got the Laancaster pointed out to me , by a local ....Just like up in Massachusetts and the town peabody .... it is pronounced peebuddy ;D
one of the great things about America , local customs , the way of doing things etc .......

[alkemical]

LOL i got the Laancaster pointed out to me , by a local ....Just like up in Massachusetts and the town peabody .... it is pronounced peebuddy ;D
one of the great things about America , local customs , the way of doing things etc .......

PA's got some fun ones like that:

Lebanon. Isn't pronounced like the middle eastern country - it's almost like Lebinin. Reading = Redding

Dude, MA - how the **** do they get wuster out of all of that (Worchesterchire) lol

[Spider]

PA's got some fun ones like that:

Lebanon. Isn't pronounced like the middle eastern country - it's almost like Lebinin. Reading = Redding

Dude, MA - how the **** do they get wuster out of all of that (Worchesterchire) lol

LOL yeah people in Illinois get pissed when you add the S , love to hear people from Boston say the word Car , half the time i dont know what a new yorker is saying they go so fast ....out west we never put a G on the ending of a word ;D
different foods also , prepared differently etc .......Man I love this country ;D

[alkemical]

LOL yeah people in Illinois get pissed when you add the S , love to hear people from Boston say the word Car , half the time i dont know what a new yorker is saying they go so fast ....out west we never put a G on the ending of a word ;D

LOL, dude - i was born in Pueblo - so when i moved to PA - everything was "soda", not "pop" - WTF is a davenport...lol just funny ****.

I later found out davenport was a grandparent thing. Not so much a regional thing (At least i think so).

Seattle was pretty decent actually - i think since so many people are transplants though - that's why everyone understands everyone.

In NY, you have have to catch up to it. lol

[alkemical]

Oh, and by the way -

Spider has good people skills. I know another guy from WY that just shoots people in the face. ;)

[Spider]

Oh, and by the way -

Spider has good people skills. I know another guy from WY that just shoots people in the face. ;)

ROFL! dead eye Dick

[L.A. BRONCOS FAN]

It's a logical fallacy not a racist statement. A racist statement is one meant to demean, place one group above another, and/or directly harm/threaten. A lack of making the distinction between the two is a big reason a lot of people get into fights. It's like a "you people" statement but even less powerful. People that want to take offense will, others won't even notice. If somebody said you people to me I wouldn't even take notice.

Now if he had said "Most N****** expect a white boy to back down" I think we can all agree that would be pretty racist.

Wrong.

What was racist about the statement was that it was a generalization about an entire group of people (or "most" of that group) based solely on skin color.

I wonder what cutthemdown's reaction would be if a black man were to say something like "most white men share the KKK's views?"

[alkemical]

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:devil:

[epicSocialism4tw]

Spider, first off - It's lancaster. It's pronounced laancaster (you have to drag that first a bit) - Second of all - lancaster isn't always the nicest "city" in pa. It's far better than york. But outside of the city is kinda funny - lots of farm land, and a few amish.

I worked on west james st in lancaster...one night i was outside taking a smoke break (i worked 7p-7a) - and at about...i dunno 2ish...pop pop pop pop - i dunno - a half a block away - ya...break time was ovah.

I have a similar story...I work in the inner city. Get this...I'm teaching a youth bible study on Sunday morning at about 11 am. These are all impressionable, street-hardened teenagers. We're in the middle of discussion, and then pop! pop! pop!...pop! pop! then this dude runs by right in front of us and hops in a car that peels off.

There was a drive-by right in the middle of our bible study.

[alkemical]

I have a similar story...I work in the inner city. Get this...I'm teaching a youth bible study on Sunday morning at about 11 am. These are all impressionable, street-hardened teenagers. We're in the middle of discussion, and then pop! pop! pop!...pop! pop! then this dude runs by right in front of us and hops in a car that peels off.

There was a drive-by right in the middle of our bible study.

God works in mysterious ways.... ;D