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baja
10-28-2015, 09:03 PM
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baja
10-28-2015, 09:10 PM
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EDIT STORY FOUND ON INTERNET.

CANT LINK IT BECAUSE ITS A MEMBERS ONLY SITE

Doggcow
10-28-2015, 09:11 PM
Anyone else playing FFXIV lately?

baja
10-28-2015, 09:13 PM
Anyone else playing FFXIV lately?

Is that anything like Kick the Can?

Doggcow
10-28-2015, 09:14 PM
Is that anything like Kick the Can?

same concept really

Vegas_Bronco
10-28-2015, 09:17 PM
caballero
Weddings are a dads worst nightmare.

WoodMan
10-28-2015, 09:22 PM
I believe I would take the $48,500 I saved; by not putting on that wedding and go have a very fun vacation far from the crowd.

orinjkrush
10-28-2015, 09:23 PM
Is this for real?

DENVERDUI55
10-28-2015, 09:28 PM
He should do nothing. Guarantee he has been getting walked on and enabled these actions to take place for 10 years so why do something now.

Gort
10-28-2015, 09:30 PM
neither the GF nor the GF's daughter respect him. without respect, there is no relationship. they're just using him for his resources. 10:1 odds the GF has been sleeping around on him too. if a woman doesn't respect her man, she doesn't stay faithful - especially when there isn't even a marriage involved.

he needs to kick them all out. delete all of their contact info. never reciprocate contact with either of them again. move on with his life and chalk this up as a lesson learned about the true nature of women. hopefully the groom has gotten a taste of what he's about to marry into and he'll get cold feet and find a different woman who is not so self-centered and selfish as his fiance and her mother.

Targaryen
10-28-2015, 09:32 PM
This man is awesome.

I salute him.

What a bad ass.

Targaryen
10-28-2015, 09:33 PM
Is that anything like Kick the Can?

Kick the can is more rewarding.

Papa-pwn
10-28-2015, 09:37 PM
Haven't been on the site in near a decade but this reminds me of an old greentext. Though the ending was different I'm sure

Vegas_Bronco
10-28-2015, 09:44 PM
... start dating the grooms mom.

BroncoMan4ever
10-28-2015, 09:56 PM
He should do nothing. Guarantee he has been getting walked on and enabled these actions to take place for 10 years so why do something now.

While I agree 10 years is a long time, it wasn't until now after a decade of false respect and supposed family love that it finally came out the he is nothing more than a wallet with uncared for feelings. I agree with him, screw them all. He had more tact during the toast than I would have. I would have downed my drink and ended it like this

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OMAHA HA
10-28-2015, 11:19 PM
Bro if I were there I would shake your hand . Think you did the right thing and I would've done the same **** . Actually improv wouldn't have let it get that far but nonetheless I salute .

Targaryen
10-28-2015, 11:21 PM
While I agree 10 years is a long time, it wasn't until now after a decade of false respect and supposed family love that it finally came out the he is nothing more than a wallet with uncared for feelings. I agree with him, screw them all. He had more tact during the toast than I would have. I would have downed my drink and ended it like this

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lmao

Well put.

Rohirrim
10-28-2015, 11:30 PM
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ScottXray
10-29-2015, 12:01 AM
Baja,

If this is really your story then you have done what NEEDED to be done.

Still, you have my sympathy, because ending a long term relationship on such abrupt and disagreeable terms must be painful as hell. And at our age ( we are not spring chickens) it is so disappointing to find that the time and effort already put into a relationship was such a one sided affair.


I am so sorry for your situation!

Blueflame
10-29-2015, 12:19 AM
move on with his life and chalk this up as a lesson learned about the true nature of women

Holy misogyny and good job lumping ALL women into the same category as a few atypical pieces-of-work.

Newsflash: MOST women are not like that.

Gort
10-29-2015, 12:59 AM
Holy misogyny and good job lumping ALL women into the same category as a few atypical pieces-of-work.

Newsflash: MOST women are not like that.

it's not misogyny. misogyny means "hatred" of women. discussing the true nature of women is not "hatred" of women. feminists think that men and women are the same, just with different sex organs. that is not true. men and women are fundamentally very different. men do not naturally understand why women do the things they do and vice-versa. they have to seek out this information and learn about the underlying differences between the sexes when it comes to mating strategies. opposite genders both approach relationships with the opposite sex with different goals and assumptions. this is all well accepted in evolutionary psychology circles.

PS - calling somebody a misogynist is such a common and overused ploy used by feminists, that's it's now little different than calling somebody a racist or a nazi or a homophobe just because you disagree with their viewpoint. you should try to refrain from doing that and instead focus on the issue you disagree with, either for debate purposes or because you want to understand more about what the other person is thinking. calling somebody a misogynist or a racist or a nazi or whatever is just a quick way to derail a discussion into name calling.

baja
10-29-2015, 05:59 AM
Baja,

If this is really your story then you have done what NEEDED to be done.

Still, you have my sympathy, because ending a long term relationship on such abrupt and disagreeable terms must be painful as hell. And at our age ( we are not spring chickens) it is so disappointing to find that the time and effort already put into a relationship was such a one sided affair.


I am so sorry for your situation!

OMG This isn't my story I got it off another web site.

ScottXray
10-29-2015, 10:21 AM
OMG This isn't my story I got it off another web site.

I wish you had said that at the start. Or was that small text at the bottom of the last message there ( i overlooked it) to begin with.

So, what do you think was the correct response?

baja
10-29-2015, 10:28 AM
I wish you had said that. So, what do you think was the correct response?

I guess I thought it was obvious since it was posted using img brackets I thought the large print would be self explanatory.

I doubt it would ever get that far if it were me but I agree 100% with what the guy did in not paying for the wedding.

ghwk
10-29-2015, 12:28 PM
I would have used a smaller god damn font

baja
10-29-2015, 01:29 PM
I would have used a smaller god damn font

LOL It was a cut and paste. I thought it was obvious it was not my story.

Blueflame
10-29-2015, 02:04 PM
it's not misogyny. misogyny means "hatred" of women. discussing the true nature of women is not "hatred" of women. feminists think that men and women are the same, just with different sex organs. that is not true. men and women are fundamentally very different. men do not naturally understand why women do the things they do and vice-versa. they have to seek out this information and learn about the underlying differences between the sexes when it comes to mating strategies. opposite genders both approach relationships with the opposite sex with different goals and assumptions. this is all well accepted in evolutionary psychology circles.

PS - calling somebody a misogynist is such a common and overused ploy used by feminists, that's it's now little different than calling somebody a racist or a nazi or a homophobe just because you disagree with their viewpoint. you should try to refrain from doing that and instead focus on the issue you disagree with, either for debate purposes or because you want to understand more about what the other person is thinking. calling somebody a misogynist or a racist or a nazi or whatever is just a quick way to derail a discussion into name calling.

Perhaps you prefer the term "gender-based bigotry". 'Cause that's what it is when a negative stereotype is applied with a broad brush to all individuals within the group.

It's not name-calling to say a comment could be characterized as misogynistic -- it would be name-calling if one said "you are a misogynist". Which is not what I said.

Gort
11-02-2015, 12:07 AM
Perhaps you prefer the term "gender-based bigotry". 'Cause that's what it is when a negative stereotype is applied with a broad brush to all individuals within the group.

It's not name-calling to say a comment could be characterized as misogynistic -- it would be name-calling if one said "you are a misogynist". Which is not what I said.

L O L. so saying that women share common traits which are not necessarily flattering is now misogynistic?

marriage for women is partially about procuring resources from their mate. for themselves and their kids. this is a survival strategy that exists even in nature with the females of species. even if any particular woman claims it's not the case for her (such as yourself)... the minute her husband quits his job and decides all he wants to do is sit in the basement all day and play video games, this trait will soon rear it's head and the marriage will suddenly enter troubled waters. that's why women routinely claim to want a "successful" man or an "ambitious" man as their mate. men never use those words to describe the sort of woman we want. do you dispute that this is an inherent difference between the sexes? learning the true nature of women is to understand that as a man, we don't automatically understood the motivations that make women do what they do in relationships -- unless we take the time to learn these differences. there is nothing about discussing any of this that is misogynistic.

it's pertinent to Baja's OP because it's precisely this desire for resources that has driven those womens' behavior toward that man, which for 10 years he didn't realize... until one day it all became obvious when he finally saw all of the disrespect they were showing him during his GF's daughter's wedding preparations. he was a chump. when they looked at him, all they saw was his bank account. he thought they loved him. he was wrong.

Blueflame
11-02-2015, 01:14 AM
L O L. so saying that women share common traits which are not necessarily flattering is now misogynistic?

marriage for women is partially about procuring resources from their mate. for themselves and their kids. this is a survival strategy that exists even in nature with the females of species. even if any particular woman claims it's not the case for her (such as yourself)... the minute her husband quits his job and decides all he wants to do is sit in the basement all day and play video games, this trait will soon rear it's head and the marriage will suddenly enter troubled waters. that's why women routinely claim to want a "successful" man or an "ambitious" man as their mate. men never use those words to describe the sort of woman we want. do you dispute that this is an inherent difference between the sexes? learning the true nature of women is to understand that as a man, we don't automatically understood the motivations that make women do what they do in relationships -- unless we take the time to learn these differences. there is nothing about discussing any of this that is misogynistic.

it's pertinent to Baja's OP because it's precisely this desire for resources that has driven those womens' behavior toward that man, which for 10 years he didn't realize... until one day it all became obvious when he finally saw all of the disrespect they were showing him during his GF's daughter's wedding preparations. he was a chump. when they looked at him, all they saw was his bank account. he thought they loved him. he was wrong.

I am saying that women -- like men -- are individuals and it's wrong to sweep a broad-brush (negative) generalization across the entire group. It wouldn't be fair to judge ALL men based on the bad behavior of a few -- the small percentage of men who might lie about their true marital status -- or even about the possiblity that they could be carrying an STD.

From my perspective, marriage is about finding someone you would be happy to spend every minute, 24/7/365 with -- someone you can communicate freely with and confide even the most embarrassing anecdotes from your past without fear of being judged. It's not about a paycheck; it's about shared life goals and making fun, happy memories together. And I've been blessed to find that "someone". We both know what it means to live within a fairly-rigid budget and we have always worked together to make ends meet.

As for Baja's OP -- that story may or may not even be true. I'd seen it posted on facebook before seeing it here. I'm not one who says -- "I read it on the internet, so it's gospel truth." Sorry.